Collarspace.com

I'm not wired for long-term relationships or one night stands. So, it looks like "friends with benefits" is the way to go. But not the facade of friendship, acquaintances who meet for no-strings-attached sex. I deserve more than that, and so do you. I'm seeking an intimate connection with a man who seeks the same things in life: a little bit of adventure, mutual respect, and understanding with no strings attached. I'm not a professional. I'm not seeking money, and I don't intend on paying someone to act a part. So don't ask, don't offer. I'm interested in conversations (over the internet or over coffee) that could lead to intimacy (on the internet or on my bed) with someone who isn't going to fall in love, attempt to psychologically manipulate, or otherwise drop a picket fence in my yard. In return, I can offer the same. Oh, and while I can have my submissive moments with the right type of switch, I'm not seeking a dominant partner. Sexually speaking, I'm pretty tame. I like to tease. I like a little bit of bondage, and if you catch me on the right afternoon, I can appreciate a good costume. You think we could have some fun, send me a message.
7/17/2013 6:47:33 PM

Taking a big step back from this website.  I received numerous responses, and have attempted to keep up with them . . . unfortunately, too many people have not been patient, have fussed at me to reply within minutes after leaving a message, have thrown guilt-trips and childish temper tantrums, etc.

 

Not to mention the condescending doms who don't bother reading my profile at all, who send message after message pretending that I'm ignoring them because I'm shy or playing games, when in reality, I'm not interested.

 

BDSM without mutual respect is abuse.  Being dominant isn't about treating others poorly, acting above them, etc.  Mistreating others isn't confidence, it's the glaring absence thereof.

7/12/2013 9:17:35 AM

Before I created a profile, I received an overwhelming response from users of this site.  I deleted them.  Without reading them, without visiting their profiles.  I feel bad about it, but there was something impersonal about the idea of messaging a stranger who hasn't provided a trace of information.  You can catch me if/when you would like to make a legitimate connection with another human being.

Curiouskt
 
 Age: 24
  Texas