I am new to this lifestyle. I have been overely sheltered all of my life. Therefore I am learning a great deal. I have not only been overprotected, I have been overly-controlled. I am ready for a change. I want to be in total control. I am not a mean person nor am I selfish. I will hurt somone else if that's what they want. I am looking for someone who is happy only when I am pleased. I want someone who will recognise the importance of my needs being met.