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sweetdevotions

Ok, no longer looking for a partner. That seems a lost cause on this site. Right now I am just looking for friends and networking. So, if you want to have coffee, tea, beer and share your experiences about the lifestyle, that'd be great. Or even if you just want to chat and be friends in general. Of course this invitation is open to any...male, female, dominant, or submissive.



I am having issues finding a partner (in day to day life) because my looks do not seem to match up with what I'd like in a relationship. The problem is, I think, that I look very innocent and I'm indeed a little shy and I attract similar types of guys. It doesn't work out very well. That is what brought me to CM.


I am submissive with the right person and generally eager to please with anyone. I am not submissive until dominated. Using titles and assuming roles without trust and respect first make me uneasy.

I get along best with dominant males that are at ease giving instructions. I am relatively physically active, so would appreciate someone on a similar health level. I am very rarely attracted to anyone under 30.

I enjoy lakes and rivers, traveling, being outdoors in general, reading, and following recipes. My humour ranges from obscene, dry, dark to situational, cutesy, and physical. I laugh and smile easily. I can be very playful. I love to make another person smile. I'm a good listener and enjoy talking about random ideas. If I were anymore easy going I'd be dead.

Honest negatives? I can be rabid in my defense of something I believe is right. I am not a morning person. I'm a huge procrastinator. I am sometimes one of those "I need my space" types. I am somewhat a tomboy. I'm anal about my socks.

I have pictures, just ask.

4/7/2010 6:29:10 PM
Well, finally done with school for now.    Five more weeks and I'm finally free from this crazy college town.  I still haven't settled on whether I'm moving to the Houston or Austin area, but hopefully I can finally meet some people and discover what path I am meant to be on.   I've been so eager to meet dominant men and see how a relationship would work, but I realize now that there should be no hurry.  I'm honestly interested in the lifestyle and by limiting myself to interaction with dom males that have relationship potential, I'm shorting myself on a myriad of other learning and discovery experiences.   Perhaps the best path for me right now is exploring through others' instead of jumping right in...we'll see!   Either way, I'm excited about the move.
1/12/2010 3:05:23 PM
I apologize for not responding.  I used to respond to every message and it took up way too much time.   I thought it was the polite thing to do, though.  Now I realize that a quick message mentioning I'm not interested too frequently turns into a several message ordeal that's full of way too much angst. 

If I don't respond, it either means that you're too far (<60miles ideal 60-100 gray area,  >100 may not reply zone), waaay outside the desired age range (30-45),  your profile suggests that we aren't compatible, or you're fat. 

Now that's not saying I WON'T respond.  I've chatted with a few really cool people that are very far away...But these are just the main reasons why I don't reply, and I apologize.
10/11/2009 6:02:14 PM
This sucks.  The few people I have actually had a connection with are way too far away, stand me up, or just flat out disappear.  I feel awesome.
7/20/2009 3:27:30 PM
Visiting sunny San Diego until Sunday!!!  Enjoying myself so far.
7/2/2009 12:07:33 AM
I was trying to be tactful when I wrote that I would appreciate someone on a similar health level.   If you aren't in control of yourself, really, how can you truly be in control of someone else?  
6/23/2009 3:24:16 PM
Am I the only one that thinks the tenacity some have to capitalize a letter is just...a mite...silly?

I have a feeling that I'm going to be like the native speaker that fails SPAN101.
toy901
 
 Age: 47
 Liverpool, United Kingdom