I have realized since lifting my eyes and consciousness from books and graduate school that my hopes for completion and self-realization must reside in this yet-only-partially-understood (to me) world. For that reason, I am gingerly and cautiously seeking an experienced, nuanced, and caring guide to lead me on my journey into submission.
I am not impulsive; I weigh and consider nearly everything I do, thinking my actions through with great care.
I hope to repay the patience I will require with the utter and complete fulfillment of my guide's most cherished desires, offered in joy by my willing and devoted heart.
As for what I seek: It is most important that we share an intellectual as well as sensual chemistry, that we laugh together well and often, and find in each other the completion we each want and need. I am without a doubt happy with my own company - but know that in relationship lies the fulfillment I seek.
The man for whom I search must value a bright and perceptive mind. I make no apologies for having pursued an education. I have an advanced degree in the humanities and am serenely happy when engaged in teaching and in learning. My mind is open and searching; I am curious about all that people do and have done. I want to understand the factors that motivate the choices people make and have made across time and place. That will include you, too. I love learning, thinking critically, and exploring new ideas. I approach the world with what admittedly can be a rather childlike curiosity yet analyze critically with clarity and precision.
I am creative and loving, nurturing without smothering (and I do understand the difference), willing and understanding, accepting and pliant. I will not be happy unless you allow me to know you and know you well, to move closer and closer to your heart and soul, to anticipate and please, comfort and caress in every way I learn you like. I understand that people require space and separation to find themselves and replenish their souls....and that makes coming together once more even more comforting, fulfilling, and joyous. I believe that it is only by knowing each other can we twine ever together as spirits growing in balance, in tandem in the world we will create together. It is not a dream.
12/1/2011 10:05:03 PM
I am such a sleepy kitten....why have I come here tonight?
