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I knew in my late teen years that I was submissive after having read some Penthouse letters. In my early twenties, I met, and lived with, a dominant woman. It was mostly service oriented, running errands, massaging her, and such. We never had sex, that relationship lasted almost three years. I couldn't find another dominant woman, and ended up in a vanilla marriage that lasted 28 years. Though I did introduce her to Femdom, purchased a book by Elise Sutton, but my wife just didn't take to it. After her death, I met and lived with another dominant woman for three years. She introduced me to, and I enjoyed: bondage, blindfolds, chastity by wearing a chastity device, tease/denial, milking, pegging/strap on, orgasm control, impact play, Femdom/power exchange, some protocol, running errands, wearing specific attire, wearing a collar. She taught me how to massage her G-spot to orgasm. We had traditional sexual intercourse once, about six months into the relationship, at her direction. Early in my life, I thought I was submissive. As I grew older, I thought I was a sub with slave tendencies. At this point in my life, I know I would be a slave for the right dominant woman. Yes, I am open to much more than I have experienced. I am NOT a masochist, though I do expect appropriate punishment as required to properly train me into what you desire. I am looking for a Femdom relationship, even Femdom marriage. My prior Femdom relationships were 24/7, which is what I seek. Yes, we had vanilla times, but all was decided by my Mistress. I will provide additional photos upon serious requests, can see me on FL. I am 65, healthy, with no known medical issues. Easygoing, humorous, polite, gentle, kind and extremely submissive. I am retired, live alone, and am available to travel, meet, talk and see if we may be a good match.

Goddessinya, 

Thank you for allowing it to approach. How would you like it to address You?

it seek a Femdom, TPE, long-term relationship, under total ownership.  it has been in two, 24/7 Femdom live together relationships, with each lasting 3 to 4 years.  it never had sex with the first Mistress, and had sex once with the second Mistress, at Her order.  The first relationship was primarily service-oriented, with some massaging of Mistress.  The second relationship was a mix of various BDSM elements, such as: body worship, bondage, chastity, impact play, pegging, orgasm control, some protocol, service, tease/denial.  it wore a chastity cage almost 100% of the time, except for weekly inspections by Mistress.  it slept in a separate bedroom.  There were some vanilla times, but Mistress was always in control.

it is 66, living 20 minutes east of Prescott, AZ, live alone, and not in any current relationship.  it has no health issues, does not use drugs, nor smoke, and rarely drinks.  it knows how to cook, but, currently, does not know how to provide proper manicures and pedicures.

Again, thank you for allowing it to approach.  it is available to discuss anything you may desire to discuss or know in detail.  Hope You had a wonderful Thanksgiving.

it has always been submissive for as long as it can remember.  The best of times have been in its two FLRs.  A basic need to serve, submit, controlled, and owned.  This isn't a fantasy, it has been reality in life, purposely sought out and lived.  The need still burns deep.

it apologizes for not responding sooner.  when it did respond, it was blocked