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I've decided to write something here on the off-chance someone reads it and decides to write to me. Even if you're not interested in me as a partner, friends are always welcome so feel free to drop me a line. I'm not interested in paying for kink though, so adverts will be ignored.
What am I looking for? Well, something I may not find easily here. Far too many female dominants on this site are either in it for the money, or present their desires purely in terms of abuse. I don't believe that submission makes a person worthless, and I'm not looking for a 24/7 effort to demolish my sense of self-worth.
I like to submit, and to serve, with someone who I care for and trust, and who cares for me. I need some form of emotional bond there - it doesn't have to be love, but friendship at least. If I submit and worship someone, that someone needs to be a person to me.
Eventually, I'd love to settle into a long term relationship with a dominant woman also looking for affection as well as service.
BDSM-wise, well, service is what I'm looking for. There are some things I like sexually, obviously, since I'm not free of opinions/preferences, but I'm happy to serve in other ways, from housework to.. well, I can't say I've compiled an exhaustive list. Really, I'm not looking to tick off a load of kinks from a list, I just want to please, know I'm pleasing, and feel valued for my service.
One thing I should mention is that I really, really don't like extreme pain. I'm not a masochist by nature, although mild pain (spanking etc) can be enjoyable. So I'd say that I'm willing to be punished with pain to a certain degree, but someone whose main interest is inflicting severe pain and discomfort for fun, rather than (non-play) discipline, would probably be a bad match for me.
Anyway, I hope this gives you a sense of who I am.
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