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| Lifelong closeted married male sub seeks chat & friends with others on any related topic.
That hierarchy even exists seems to make many people very nervous and to have the nerve to bring it out into the light can evoke hostility and disgust. And yet, it's everywhere and it looks to me like the more it is denied, the more destructive it can become.
To savor the experiences superior/inferior, topdog/underdog, Dominance/submission is something that I aspire to, though right now I'm quite timid on the topic and quite capable of faking the "proper" role.
What's it to you? Are you comfortable only on one side or the other? Does one role turn you on and the other turn you off? Is one better?
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