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Hi I am a confident BBW. I am attractive, fun, and inquisitive. I am hoping to find a confident (not arrogant) Dom who is interested in getting to know me, wants a relationship, and views sex as a fun and mutually enjoyable benefit of the relationship versus the basis of such. Unfortunately, I have an age hang up that limits my search to someone between the ages of 30-45, give or take a couple years at most. Please do not message me hoping you can change my mind. I am aware of my limitations. My personal and professional life requires a certain level of discretion. I am not looking for a live-in situation. I am looking for someone I can talk to, learn from, and who is confident and has a strong personality. I'm hoping to find a rare balance of intelligence, decisiveness, and a natural confidence, but without the need to prove oneself. I need a firm but caring hand, and someone who can provide the time, experiences, and attention I crave, while being understanding of prior obligations and is willing to share my time. I am naturally friendly, flirty, assertive, and outgoing. I wish to submit to someone who is not intimidated by my strong personality and who can guide and nurture me. I am fairly new to the lifestyle, although I have had several exposures in BDSM since I was 19. My goal is to find the right person for a relationship, but I will also mention my ideal scene experience with that right person would include a sensual ramp up to impact play. I enjoy and am open minded towards a variety of sensations, but hard limits are NO: face slapping, scat, water works, blood, or permanent marks. My personal philosphy: "try something new multiple times, because you might not have been with the right person the first few times... " It's a fun life - lol.