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I am a quiet,easy going,fun loving...
Very submissive lady...

I enjoy going to spanking parties,fetish clubs & munch meets...

With my Dom & friends,I am exclusive to my Dom,but we both play with others at parties...

I am more looking for friendship,then a Dom...




1/3/2007 9:33:11 AM
Hmmm...
I'm begining to think its me...
When Doms come in CM...'A bdsm community'...What are they looking for?...
Apart from the obvious lol...
They send you messages...& ask to chat...Then if you respond in a positive 'interested way'...Exchange messages...chat to them...Arrange to meet them for coffee...because you got on with them online...& there fore wanted to see if you were compatible...

I should add...That is not aimed at everyone who has messaged me lol...

They get all funny because your not just meeting them 'exclusively'...Silly me...I missed that part in the messages...

Lets get this in perspective...It is a online cyber community...I am as much entitled to meet who I like...as they are...


1/1/2007 11:47:26 AM
I had a great evening...seeing in the new year with our friends & kids...We were the noisey annoying people making loads of noise at mid night...

2007 is going to be a great year...I can feel it lol...New house...New job {hopefuly}...Does any one want a kinky employee who they can punish for not doing her job properly lol...

I have just started part 2 of my story...I am writing it for my Dom...As that is something we've got going on between us lol...We both like the victorian era...Obviously it is done in a light hearted way...We don't dress up lol...

There is something quite sensual about all those layers of clothes being peeled off until you reach those BIG lacy bloomers lol...




12/30/2006 7:29:23 PM
It was 3rd time lucky uploading my picture...but it looks awlful...oh well...

I finished part one of my story tonight...It is inspired by my Dom...We have got our own victorian melodrama going on lol...

Mmmm...its something about victorian bloomers that does something to me {{{Grins}}}...Actually I do like bloomers...'draws' as their called...

I was definitely born in the wrong era...

Any way here is my story......

A Victorian melodrama...Part one...

Written by Karen,inspired by sir...

Lady Karen stood anxiously waiting out side Sir Stephens study door.She dreaded the interview that she was about to have with her guardian.Her growing anxiety was not helped by the sounds coming through the heavy oak door,that of the two new chamber maids.Each swish of the cane & agonized yelp made her bottom twinge more with nervous anticipation.

It took all of her will power to stay where ebbing's the house keeper had put her.Hmmm...'What right has she got to order me about' karen thought to her self,but another loud yelp coming through the study door soon brought her mind back to her inevitable fate.

After what seemed a age,the swoosh,crack & piercing yelps stopped.Karen strained her ears to hear what sir Stephen was saying,but all she could hear was mumbling.Her heart felt like it jumped up into her throat when she heard the click of the door opening.Then the two sniveling girls hurried out into the corridor,where Lady karen was waiting.

Karen felt like running & hiding,but she was stuck rigid to the spot."Come in young lady"...it was too late now,Karen had to make her feet move towards the study door where her guardian was waiting.Her heart felt like it was beating in her head,her mouth felt so dry,probably because she had forgotten to swallow since the study door had opened.

As she entered the dark opposing room,{well it felt opposing to karen at that moment}she noticed the canes & well worn strap still laying on the big dark wood desk.Karen must have frozen in the door way,because Sir Stephen had to tell her to close the door & come closer.

Karen slowly walked the few steps to reach the desk where sir Stephen was sitting browsing through a book.She stood in front of him twiddling her fingers in front of her,the occasional disapproving grunts coming from her guardian,just made her more nervous.

"Tut Tut"..."What am I going to do with you?" Sir Stephen asked her in an exasperated voice...Karen did not answer,she thought it was not a good idea to offer a suggestion.Her comments often got her in trouble,they said she was being impertinent,but she was only being honest.

"The last thrashing I gave you,does not appear to have been enough" Sir Stephen lectured.Lady Karen bit her lip & looked down at her hands,before she spoke her thoughts out loud,she so hated being admonished by her mentor.

"Do you know what this book is?" He asked her as he turned the book around so she could read the many entry's that had been written in the punishment book over the last two weeks,since he had been away. "No Sir" Karen shook her head."Read the first entry" He demanded.

"L-Lady Karen was seen fr-fraternizing with the new under g-gardener" she stuttered,Karen knew full well what happens when she is caught with the male staff,her bottom twinged again,as she waited for Sir Stephens next demand.

'Hmmm...Do you think that is the way a lady of your station should behave???'...Karen cringed at the sound of his harsh tone...'No sir'...Sir Stephen sighed with irritation...

The heavy leather chair scrapped on the wooden floor as Sir Stephen pushed it out from the desk.Lady Karen's heart started pounding,she was so scared."Come here",he said in a grave voice.Karen was so nervous,her hands were clammy,she was shaking so much she was surprised her teeth were not chattering.

"Karen"..."Come here"...Sir Stephen said in a low menacing voice,warning her not to disobey him.Karen took a deep breath then forced her self to walk around the desk to take her humiliating painful punishment.

As she got close to him,he took hold of her wrist & guided her to his right side.Karen tingled with anticipation as his skin touched hers.It sent a jolt of tingling sensation right through her,ending in her most private intimate place.

That confused her.Her strict guardian was angry with her,& about to give her a very humiliating painful punishment,but her body was responding the same way as it did when she was close to the footman stable lad or under gardener.They all had one thing in common...Mmmm the muscles & masculinity......

It took seconds for those thoughts & feelings to go through her...Before she felt herself being pulled across Sir Stephens lap...Then the feelings changed to embarrassment,soon her bottom would be bare,she gave a little gasp as she felt Sir Stephens hand smoothing her skirt over her bottom...Karen crossed her ankles... as if that would help.

Sir Stephen didn't bother lecturing his wayward ward anymore...He got down to the task at hand...He smiled to himself when he saw Karen cross her ankles...That was one of the things she always did...It was not the first time he had felt the need to chastise her...In fact he was thinking of giving her a even more severe spanking then usual.

Lady karen jumped as the first spank landed on her Well padded posterior...It did not hurt at all,because there was so many layers protecting her bottom...That just made her feel more vulnerable because she knew from experience that Sir would soon work his way through the layers,each time the spanks would get harder & sting even more,until he reached her draws.

How she hated the humiliation of having her draws opened at the back so her by then pink bottom would feel the cool air & feel the unbearable sting.

12/30/2006 10:10:13 AM
Nearly new years eve...I'm looking forward to seeing the new year in...with our friends...In a vanilla way lol...{{{pouts}}}...

I would much rather do the count down in cane strokes lol...Oh well...may be next year...

Yesturday I had the misfortune to chat to a rude little man...who was masquarading as a Dom...Ummm!...

I don't mind chatting to like minded people...but I object to twats who treat me like a stupid simpering female...who will jump to it when I am given a 'clear'....'firm' command to go on yahoo...show him a picture...blah blah blah...

Grrr it is a bit annoying though...cos my pictures don't seem to upload on my profile...

Men...please get it into your heads...Just because a woman responds to your message...& chats to you...It doesn't mean she is going to meet you...cyber with you...Or provide you with a free sex line...

A desperate man is a real turn off...

That said...I have been exchanging messages with a very nice man...'A very very nice man lol'...I'm sure his a woman...because he says all the right things...Sorry sir I know your a real DOM...{{{Smiles sweetly}}}....


12/29/2006 1:08:59 PM
Gawd...I am getting so many messages...Which I suppose is usual for fem subs...As there always seems to be more Men then females...

Mind you I have had the odd message {not just in Collar me}....Which are actually very rude & disrespectful...

As my husband says...Men can have sex with anything...but women are a lot more fussy...Plus...all because a woman is into spanking...it doesn't mean she is looking for sex...& it definitely does not mean she is easy...



12/29/2006 4:28:26 AM
only 2 days left of 2006...That means my last spanking was on the 19th December AGESSS ago...{{{pouts}}}...

My first spanking of the new year...will be the 4th January...Very over due lol...but then sir does give me a long,hard,intense enough thrashing to last me 2 weeks...

That said...I find that I start to get frustrated after a week...It gets to 9 days after my last spanking...& I'm day dreaming about my next one lol...


12/26/2006 3:27:36 PM
Merry Christmas & a happy new year...I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in the new year...

I have had sooo many messages over the Christmas break...'Sad' lol...

It can get quite confusing though...so the ones that write me a nice long message & don't seem too arogant...I give my email address...

Why do the blokes expect you to want to meet them...just because you replied to them...

I am very fussy about what I want...I have got a really good Dom already...so anyone then I meet has to be just as good...

I don't just mean the spanking...the personality too...

I suppose I am a bit more synical too...because I have done a bit of Pro sub work...So if I am meeting someone just for play...they have to be special...

I have got to wait 9 days before I see my Dom...{{{pouts}}}...Then 9 days after that we are going to a party...

He has got to give me his BIG 50 birthday spanking {{{grins}}}...Mmmm...I can't wait...
12/9/2006 11:01:24 AM
I have already got 2 journals,well 3 if you include my private journal,but I'll keep a journal here too,its just that I'll have to repeat myself...

I have had 3 messages so far...neither of them seem to have read my profile,but then again does anyone ever read a persons profile properly...I do...but then I am a woman lol...
 
ladybansot
 
 Age: 26
 Westfield, Massachusetts