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	As the name states I consider myself a submissive-switch. No I am not looking for someone to "switch" with, I would prefer to keep those roles seperate based on the person. Right now I am in the beginning stages of exploring my submissive side. I wouldn't say that I am a total noob, but fairly new in the learning process. As far as what kind of a submissive I relate to, I would say that I am a "sexual submissive". This means that I only want to submit in the bedroom. Outside of the bedroom I am just myself, and that is not going to change. I am in a relationship, and my significant other is also exploring this lifestyle. Some times we explore together, and sometimes separate. I am also involved in the local lifestyle that has just started in the high desert (munch/playparties). I am not sure what I am looking for at this time. Maybe others like myself that are new and wanting to learn. Maybe others that want to get involved in the local social scene. Friends to talk to about the lifestyle. If it is the right person maybe someone to explore with. I am not looking to meet up with someone and fuck. I will not travel to meet someone. I will not just meet anyone... it takes time to get to know someone. This does not mean I am looking for a relationship (I am already in a relationship gasp lol). I think the term to what I am looking for is "play partner", but I think that the play would be much more fun if we were also friends. I am not new to this site, just back with a clearer idea of what I am looking for on this site. If you send me a message and it is obvious you haven't even bothered to read my profile then you might not like the response you recieve. Just saying I also find myself with a bit of freetime on my time where it would be nice to countdown the hours with someone to talk to (no this does not mean that I am "lonely", I just have some periods of freetime to fill)

10/13/2011 3:27:55 PM

Signs of a true Dom and a guy that any girl would would be luck to meet:

1) Your first message includes only the words "Submit to me slut".

2) In your first message to someone ask if they are in XYZ and when they say no totally try to change what you are looking for so they might be more likely to say yes.

3) Keep creating new accounts and then messaging people that have already said they werent interested with the same ridiculous crap as before.

4) When someone tells you politely that they dont think that you are looking for the same thing and that you love too far apart for anything to happen you start calling names like a little kid. Ooooh ya, that petulant child act is SUCH a turn on!!!

I'm sure the list could go on and on and that many could add to it. Well, if nothing else Collar Me is a source of great amusement!

9/2/2011 3:08:27 PM

This time around on CM I have gotten less random messages. I think that is a good thing. maybe it is because of my handle, or perhaps of the way I filled out my profile. Who knows. I tried to be as honest as possible. I really hate when someone has their profile filled out with something that sounds good or compatible, and when you start to get to know the person you realize that basically they filled their profile with bullshit aka what they think someone wants to hear.

Of course I am not talking about everyone. I am probably not talking about half the population of CM, but it just seems like 75% of the people that talk to me. I know that there are some people that say it is rude to not reply when someone sends a message, but I think that it is rude to send a message when it is very obvious that you have not read their profile. I state on my profile that I am looking for a play partner, and then I get a message from you saying that you are looking for someone to be your 24/7 slave and relocate. Or you message me with something like "I think we have a lot in common because you say you are into ass play and I am too" and I look at your profile and you are looking for something very different than what I am looking for.

Just because I check something in my BDSM likes doesn't mean that is all I am about. On that note, from now on if I get a message when it is obvious it is a copy/paste or you haven't even bothered to read what I have to say I am not going to take the time to respond. It will be hard for me to to because I am very big on manners, but why waste each others time?