I guess the first thing I should say is that I'm very new to all this. I have a strong submissive side, sexually speaking anyway, although I've never really done anything about it before. I guess I'm here mainly to talk to people, make like-minded friends, both Domme and sub. Like I said, I'm very new at this, so I'm not really sure what getting involved with a Domme would entail, but I'd very much like to find out.

I'm a transexual, or at least that's what I'd call myself, seems there's a few different definitions floating around. To be more specific, I feel like I should've been born a girl, like I'm in the wrong body. I don't intend to do anything about it, I mean, spend years of time on painful surgeries and recovery periods that cost not only thousands of pounds but also potentially my job, my friends, and my family, only to end up years later still being 6'4" looking like a guy in a dress? Not high on my to-do list. I'm so jealous of people with the confidence to do it, especially if they're actually able to pass. I just couldn't.

That's not to say I wouldn't mind exploring that side of myself along with my submissive side, if I found someone to explore it with. Just not sure I'd want to properly permanently transition.

A friend linked me here, I decided see what it's all about, register this profile. I guess if you're reading this you're probably someone I've PMed hoping to get to know better, and if you've read this far then hopefully you're not entirely bored by what you've seen. Can't wait to hear from you.

(And how obvious is it that I have no idea how to end these things?)

PS. Just another little thing that occured to me, I guess it goes along with the various definitions of transexual. I have no idea whether to call myself straight, or gay. I mean, I'm attracted to women, and physically I'm a man, so I'm straight. But mentally, I'm a woman, therefore being attracted to women means I'm gay. Life is fun, isn't it?