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About me??
Hmm, these online introductions are so weird to me. I have yet to develop a successful means of introducing myself in this cyber world, so until I do, I will just shoot from the hip. I hope that I depict myself accurately.
I'm 25.
I had a profile on here before, but for some strange reason, my password no longer works, and I haven't been able to recover it. I am not one to forget passwords, so this puzzled me a bit. Nonetheless, here I am, new profile and all.
I'm starting my second year in Houston. The first went fairly well. Hopefully, the second continues that trend.
As for why I am in Houston, I came for work. I work with numbers all day. You might find it boring. I find it to be pretty interesting, otherwise I wouldn't keep doing it.
I'm around 5'9", but I cheated on my drivers license when I was 16 and put 5'10", and for some reason, I have maintained that claim (even on my profile). I don't know why...its dumb, I know.
I'm in pretty good shape, but I'm working to get back to the weight I was at in college. cut about 5 more pounds and I'll be content with my weight. Any more than that and I might look sickly. I now know what people were talking about when they said the last 5 pounds are the hardest to lose. Although, to be honest, most of the people who told me that puzzled me, because in my opinion, they were nowhere near the last 5 pound mark.
I'm single. No sneaking around this neighborhood.
I'm not going to spend half a year getting to know anyone online...just being honest. That being said, I have no intentions of groveling at someones feet the first time I meet them. I need to get comfortable with them first. I will submit in due time.
My experience with bdsm is limited, but not nonexistent. I wish I had more, but I'm not going to force a relationship with someone I don't think is compatible. I'm not that horny...so I wait for a good match.
As for the right match...well, I don't know if I will find what I'm looking for, but while I'm here, I might as well try. In an ideal world, I would like to establish a relationship with a woman first and foremost, and a bdsm involvement second. However, that has proven to be a difficult task. I think at this point, I would just like to make some trustworthy friends in the lifestyle that can introduce me to new things, places, and people. I just need to get more involved. I've been on the outside looking in for too long. Once I get more involved, I can start looking for a compatible woman.
As for my sub side, I don't intend to submit every second of my life. This is fair, is it not? I wouldn't think a dom would assume a dominant position in every aspect of their life at all times, would they? So yeah, if you expect submission at any given time of the day, we probably wouldn't work out. When I'm out with friends dancing, having a few drinks, or eating, I just want to be my normal self, and I don't think that will change.
I'm not into public play. If you are, great. Do as you please. I don't care for it.
Whats with these financial doms? I should send you money because you have a hot profile pic and claim to be some supreme goddess? No thanks.
As for the actual bdsm activities that I'm into, look at my interests. I will say that chastity is very intriguing to me. To give up that much power is both exciting and terrifying at the same time...especially if it was with a girl that loves to tease, that could be hell....
I'm sick. Not always, just today (the day I wrote this), and probably for the next few days. I stayed home from work. I haven't sneezed this much in my entire life. I hope its not the flu :(
I'm tired, and I think I have rambled on for a bit too long. To bed I go...
5/1/2011 9:49:46 PM

God Bless America!

2/9/2011 9:20:48 PM

This week sucks.  Starting something new at work, which is somewhat exciting, but mostly annoying because I'm currently clueless as to what I'm supposed to do.   That drives me batshit!! I hate not knowing how to do something!! Especially when its what I get paid to do, and its expected of me!!  ugh!!  

 

And I've pretty much given up on valentine's day.  This is the 2nd year in a row that I'll be rocking the solo mission, and the times before that weren't too eventful either.

 

I think work really tends to get in the way sometimes.  I already work a boatload of hours.  On top of that, I spend roughly 30 to 50% of my time out of town on business trips...wheres the time?!?!?  Wheres the fucking timeeee?!?!  

 

Ok, bitchfit complete...I will stop now.

 

On a brighter note, I did get a raise last week :)  At least I get compensated for slaving away day after day...

2/8/2011 7:32:33 PM

If you're having a bad day, watch this and cheer up.  Its the funniest thing I have seen in a long time, and I absolutely love it!!

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7Bj1hbA-Ns

1/30/2011 2:02:47 PM

Work, work, work is taking over my life!!! ugh!!  I need one solid, crazy, over the top, drink too much and dance embarrassingly kind of night, and I need it ASAP!!  Oh, next weekend can't get here fast enough!

ScurvyPirate
 
 Age: 42
 New York, New York