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| I'm not new to the lifestyle and certainly not new to the internet. I know there are jerks galore everywhere. I also know that there are the few good apples that make it all worth while. That being said, if you are one of the jerks, don't bother me. You're easy to get rid of with the click of a mouse. If you're one of the good apples then I would love to hear from you.
I will not cam with you, I will not call you unless or until I get to know you well enough that I feel comfortable and not until then. That is my call to make. I will never send you nude pics. This is not a challenge for you to ask and see if I will or not. It is a fact, so don't bother or I will consider you one of the jerks.
If anyone is still left after that being said, then I will now say hello to you and welcome to my profile.
I am seeking friends. It's as simple as that. I am not expecting more than that. Of course, if it happens I am not opposed to it, just simply not expecting it. I am an open minded individual seeking trust and truth in my life. I live to laugh. I have a bit of a sarcastic and sometimes twisted sense of humor. Little things amuse me. I never mean any harm.
Learning about life and other people interests me. It helps me understand other people and myself better. I do not claim to be the sharpest tool in the shed, but neither am I dumb. If I don't know about something I'm not afraid to ask or look it up.
If you're interested in learning more and allowing me to get to know you, drop me an email.
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Ok, so I was told by someone that my profile/journal was a bit negative. I am not per say a negative person. I am, however, cautious. It does get tiring dealing with the same old thing all the time, but I do believe the good out the weighs bad. The ones that are genuine and seriously interested in finding more than just a hook up. Those that believe in true friendship. Those are the people that I admire and am seeking. Wishing everyone good luck in their search for whatever it is they are looking for! :) |
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I've have seen a lot of profiles harping on the fakes. Fakes don't read profiles, so why bother addressing them? Even if they do, it's kind of like the people who are loud and obnoxious out in public, they just want attention and when you acknowledge them you give them power... Just a thought. |
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I am copying and pasting this that I found in one of the forums. It related to me from past experiences. Hind sight is 20/20.
A good read............. A sub's acceptance, (The pivot point) As a Master, one may think you grab a woman with a fist full of hair and drive her into submission whether it be sexual or BDSM and she is to perform to unrealistic expectations. The reality could not be farther from the truth... At least for me. It truly begins with a relationship filled with love, respect and TRUST, in time, it is the responsibility of the sub to offer her self in service or as possession, I call this the pivotal point of the total power exchange. Newbie Doms commonly miss this or deny this in haste as a means to .... well you know the rest... Short term or casual play is one thing BUT, accepting the sub and the responsibility for her also means fulfilling her emotional needs, this is not a small milestone. Before you say, "but she is a sub she has no rights to feelings.". To you I say Wake up! Is she less than a dog? Even a dog has feelings. She may be a sub in her heart, she may long to serve, but when she is happily and emotionally secure and invested she is then free with the power to serve beyond your dreams and desires. Taking responsibility for her is to accept full responsibility for her heart and happiness. You think you are going to keep an unfulfilled and unhappy woman because you can overpower her? Your life will be miserable because she is. Remember who is in charge and controlling the future. Be a real Master! Yes domination is a part, but it is equally balanced with important fulfillment of her needs. Will she serve without it? Perhaps, for a while. The question is, "is she serving because it is a part of who she is and overbearing shallow dominance is forced at the time? Or is it love from the depths of her soul? Remember this, when she is in her zone of fulfilled emotional needs you will receive her gifts beyond all expectations. My happiness as Master starts with my responsibility to her for both of us. |
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