It seems most people i talk to are just looking for casual play or something on the side, which is ok if that is what you are looking for, but i am not. i am not a submissive that wants to be played by dozens of men. i refuse to compromise just for the sake of playing at BDSM, no matter how arousing that play might be. i want to meet the Dom that i will build a relationship with.
 Someone i know wrote these words and i agree with them "It seems to me that if someone were truly submissive they'd want to experience ever deeper submission, to learn to give not only her body but her heart and soul to their master, to devote her very life to his happiness and pleasure, and if one were truly dominant he'd settle for nothing less than absolute control and complete ownership of his girl and would accept nothing less than complete responsibility for her heart, her happiness, her growth as a person... for her life." When i meet the right Dom, i want to give him my all, my total submission, my heart, mind, body and soul. Not to say i don't enjoy the kinky side of the lifestyle, i do >big smile<, but i want more than just playing at being submissive