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sub4hergrey

There are two sides to my future master, dom and lover. One side is the experienced man who knows exactly what he wants when it comes to love making and pleasure and will tell me what to do and how he wants it done. Only after you feel completely safe with him, there may be some restraints used and a blindfold to heighten the erotic sensations you will soon experience. The other side is a man who is urban, well educated, intelligent, attractive and fit, and a gentleman in every sense of the word who, after the excitement is over, will hug me and cuddle and will make me feel more cherished and appreciated than ever before. Although my role will clearly be one of a sub, my likes, dislikes, desires and pleasures are very important to this man and he will always be sensitive to them. There will never be any question as to who is in charge, however, and I am willing to do as I am told. As you can imagine, I am sure, what the consequences will be if I do not implicitly obey. There is a significant difference between discipline and abuse. You and I know the difference, but many men do not. I may well be disciplined but never abused! I want all this in a man who is willing to be with me and to cherish me. If u have questions just hit me up. ? I have a history just like any other person so I ask respectfully that you take that into consideration. I have no problem telling my past. The community I live in does not acknowledge this lifestyle so do not ask me to do anything that could very well ruin my living here. I only say this because some so called dominants have said that I am fake due to the fact that I don't follow what they say before getting to know them. Before I submit I will fully get to know the dominant. So it is nothing personal if i don't immediately send you nudes or pics ? Please feel free to message me on here as I am seriously looking.? ? S
11/3/2015 7:26:02 AM
Let me explain my user name as I have just read four emails that were completely insulting. The first five usernames I wanted were taken and I had just read the book fifty shades of grey. I agree with most that that book doesn't represent the community at all and she has no idea of a real bdsm relationship and how it works. Thanks
11/2/2015 10:25:09 PM
Also my biggest hobbies are doing puzzles, cooking ethnic foods, making blankets and scarfs.
11/2/2015 10:22:07 PM
One of the biggest questions people ask me is are you going to keep a job if I was their sub. Most tell me that I am not going to be able to keep my job. For me that is a hard limit and a safety issue. I have always worked full time and then some. I have no problem going down to less hours if that is what is good for both parties but I will not quit. Thank you for understanding
11/1/2015 1:36:39 AM
As many people have asked me about my user name I figured I would explain. I want a dominant long term and on I can be in a relationship inside the bedroom as well as outside the bedroom. Yes I know the author knows next to nothing about the lifestyle lol. I want someone who does know but also who wants a loving relationship as well. I want to feel loved not used.
3/4/2015 1:29:14 AM
So I have been reading into daddy doms and littles. I was wondering if anyone on here knew anything and can talk with me please?
3/27/2014 11:24:44 PM

Well I thought it was common sense but obviously I need to say it out loud. If you don't like how I look the look at something else. If you insult me it just shows that you are not dominant just an ignorant prick that no one will submit to. Also if I block you cause you are rude to me that doesn't mean create a fake user to just insult me some more cause I will report both of your profiles. To put it simply it is just rude to do so. I expect to be treated the same as I treat you.

3/25/2014 8:51:43 PM

So in order to stay near my family I am looking at moving to Illinois within the next few years. Granted that is depending on if I can get a transfer through work as the unemployment rate near them is horrific.

12/15/2013 11:42:17 PM

I have been asked several times in an hr the type of sub that I want to be and I honestly think the closest way to describe it is the 1950s housewife type.

9/19/2013 11:36:45 PM
Ok, I didn't think that I needed to say the obvious but honestly I get sick of ppl sending me one liners say what's up or can u send me a nude orsomething equally stupid. I don't handle stupid very well. Despite being submissive I will tell u very bluntly how stupid I think you are.
3/3/2013 11:50:16 PM
I have two almost full time jobs so I am sorry if I don't get back to u imeddiatly. There is no reason to get rude and nasty also please read my profile before you talk to me.
2/26/2013 10:23:16 PM

several doms have asked me to become anal slaves for them and so in order to put an early stop to that i can not and i mean cannot do anal so it is therefore a hard limit for me. 

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 Age: 26
 ALIQUIPPA, Pennsylvania