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*I post my pictures when I come online, and I remove them when I sign off. All pictures posted are of me, and I don't have a problem verifying if you do the same.* I am currently looking for females to meet up with when our schedules allow it. Your preferably between the ages of 25-45 but I will consider all ages. Please be in decent shape and relatively attractive, as am I. Your picture will get mine :) **I will post my picture when I am online, but I often remove it when I sign off.** Also, I'm always looking to meet male friends (Dom or sub) for conversation, so please if you want to chat and you are still respectful of my desires, then send a message my way. I have experience in the alternative lifestyle as a sub, and have no problem stating my turn-ons and turn-offs. I'd say I know what I like, but will remain open minded to things that I haven't tried. The moment that you can capture me physically is when I completely give into you mentally. The time that I am most vulnerable, excited, and nervous is when I lose all physical control... whether that's through restraints, strength, mental bondage, I hope for you to determine. My previous experience has been limited, but I have known for many years that this is what I want and there is no denying it. My lack of experience can be an advantage, however, and although someone might say that I'm a blank canvas, I would remind them that you must have a canvas to start with in the first place. Send me a message if you're still interested after reading this and we'll see where it goes.

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2/3/2015 12:42:31 AM
How to lose a sub in less than 3 messages:
Tell her she is not worthy.

12/22/2013 5:23:53 PM

As a sub, I do not want to cower in fear at your intelligence, but would rather have you conquer my own.

My mentality of being a sub- or even a slave at times, means that I want someone to open me up in ways that I did not think were possible (pun intended!) and learn from each other. Any dominant can learn something from a submissive and vice versa, no matter the interests, age, or gender. The depth of communication and honesty is key, and is what I believe to provide a healthy, worthwhile, and positive relationship.


11/21/2013 2:43:34 AM

We live in a society today where it is difficult to escape technology, especially when we've developed a comfort in searching for people within the community online so we can feel safe, make our own decisions without question, and choose which people to talk to based off of similar interests.

Part of this second world has turned into cyber sex, phone sex, online play/fantasies, whatever you wish to call it. I must say- it does absolutely nothing for me. I have tried it countless times, with mostly people that I have come to trust and respect and care about.... and I always feel down after the fact. It's not just that it does not satisfy me, but it almost makes me depressed at times. No piece of technology TRULY makes me feel submissive, no matter how much I want to please the other person or what it is they want from me. After discussing this with a few highly respected Dom's and Domme's... some completely agree and others say that my denial to this opportunity will greatly hinder me in the future, and that the people I've tried online or phone play with have guided me wrong.

Is it really me in denial, or are they stuck in our current modern society with our use of computers and phones to solve our problems or desires at any moment we feel is necessary? I think the most captivating and inspiring connection between a sub and Dom or Domme is one that does not need assistance of technology, but rather a trust between one another that can live and influence them daily without question.

Yes- I'm using a computer right now, and I use it for my personal desire to search for the right person. But this is only 1 way I choose to search, and my ultimate goal is a connection in real life. Also, I must mention that I often go on trips outdoors with no phones or computers for days. Do I expect everyone to do this? Of course not. It works for some people, but please respect and understand that it does not work for everyone.

I kindly appreciate anyone and everyone's thought on this, whether it's your personal experience or just that you agree or disagree with me. Please understand- I'm NOT attacking those who enjoy the online community, but rather critiquing those who say that it is necessary or ultimately satisfactory for anyone.

EDIT: Some recent counter arguments (usually by people who actually didn't read this post in its entirety) state that "but, but.. submission is mental before it is physical!"
I agree with this 100%, but that does not mean online submission is necessary to prove you are a real sub. If anything, the mental outlook on being submissive is even more important than the physical and I choose to exercise that aspect in person.
One exception I see in a situation is a potential couple or group that meets online and has been talking for awhile, and feel quite serious about meeting in person but they live far apart. Before they meet in person, they want to role play to give each other an idea of what it might be like to play. Even this is not crucial, but I agree it would be beneficial.


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masokissed3
 
 Age: 42
 Edinburgh, United Kingdom