I have been interested in BDSM since I was a teenager (now 32) but have never pursued anything associated with the lifestyle in real life. I would like to change that so I’ve come to collarme to try to meet someone with mutual interests.

I find the idea of being both dominant and submissive to be very erotic. This may sound strange to most of the people here, but the idea of being bound and trained by a woman seems equally exciting as having a woman submit to me.

I’ve recently become interested in chastity and purchased a cb-3000 so I’d like to talk with anyone who has an interest in chastity.

I am currently single which I think is good in this situation for 2 reasons:

1. I am not cheating on anyone if I meet someone here.
2. I am open to developing a relationship if I meet the right person here.

I am not looking for the BDSM equivalent of a one night stand. I would like to find somebody, preferably a switch, to get to know and see where things go. I can only imagine how this type of activity really touches one’s soul so I want to get to know you pretty well before and activities take place.

I am not very picky but I do have 2 requirements that you should know about:

1. You must be disease free. I’ve worked very hard to keep myself disease free and don’t want to change that.

2. Be genuine.