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Hetero Male Dominant, 50,  Charlottesville, Virginia
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Hello ladies, my name is Tim and Im adominant male currently residing in Charlottesville, Va. actively searching for a subslave female with a slim to athletic build with a pretty round ass. Im dominant by nature. its not something i just decided to be. So thats why i am here hoping to meet submissive females by nature. This life style to me is the most sensual, erotic, loving and exciting experience anyone could imagine. A submissive females knows and truly loves the feeling of being controlled and dominated. Its not about being abusive or brutal, but being loving and aguiding force in your life as you are being trained to become the perfect submissive that dwells deep within your soul. Mainstream folks do not understand people that live this type of lifestyle and I hope I can find someone here that understands me and I understand her. As for my self, i love all women. Although Im attracted to slim sexy females with tight round asses, all women are the most precious being that ever walked the face of earth. But just the same, she needs to be nurtured and molded into the beautiful being that she was created to be, a servant and slave to man. And it takes discipline to achieve this goal. Im a strict and loving Dom but very fare. I do not and will not tolerate games of any sort. I am into spanking, light bondage, ball gags, butt plugs, paddles, cuffs, cages, mental domination, control and discipline training. If you are slim and sexy with a nice rounded ass please feel free to write and leave a message stating what your interest are and what you are looking for in a Ds or Ms relationship. Please no messages from plus size females, gay men or trans gender. You can also add me on Yahoo messenger. So, until I hear from you please take care and stay safe out there.












 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 175 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


 Lives For:

 Blindfolding you (Beginner)



 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar

 Rear End Play

 Domestic Service



 Placing you on a leash

 Obedience Training

 Spanking you



 Fishing (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Corner Time (Expert)


 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Fine Dining


 Garage Sales


 Museums (Beginner)


 Breast Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)


 Amusement Parks

 Flea Markets


 Curious About:

 Antique Shows (Beginner)

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)



 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

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Journal Entries:
3/19/2012 10:56:51 AM

This site has become a place for plus size females.

10/28/2011 6:53:02 AM

Where the hell are all these plus size females coming from? What happened to all the slim sexy women that were here when I first joined this site? Please come back where ever you are. 

2/3/2008 12:20:16 AM

i first joined this site in 2005, and thought it was a great place for Doms to get to know and meet females that were submissive, and looking to exspand there desires with real time encounters. at that time i became friends and actually had weekend sessions with two females that lasted a little over a year. but since ive been back it seems as though most females here are just here to play games for their own personal kicks. im not sure how long this site has been in existence, but its going down the tube in a very fast manner. dont get me wrong now. im know you ladys get a lot of e-mails. but dont say in your profile ' if you want to know me better message me, and ill tell you all there is to know ' but then never respond at all. come on, this is a delicate life style and real Doms & Dommes takes it very seriously. if you are gonna be here at least give us the respect we deserve. act mature and conduct yourself as such. love you all always.


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