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| I have tried to keep a dom / sub relationship with woman that I called my girlfriend but the chemistry didn't hold as much as I would have continued the lifestyle so I think for me I have to have a full relationship to make this relationship work. Hmmm partial to blondes but not a deal breaker. Looking preferably for someone in my area. Like the vanilla and find latex and roleplay very stimulating...as well as meeting out spankings. Not extreme but not a wimp either ... lets talk and see what you've got...... willing to train.
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I sometimes think I am too vanilla for this site. Too many times I have seen and heard about men/Doms that think all they need to do is to act unkind shout and shout abuse. I think the lifestyle is icing on the cake of a relationship.... and like any relationship it can eventually go stale so being bbf doesn't hurt plus if you have someone that gets you thats half the battle. My last Sub was bred like many, high powered job resulting in her man making the decisions. If the connection isn't there it doesn't matter how pretty she is or how big her tits are is going to help. I am a product of the opposite situation from my Sub. My divorce led me to be the primary caregiver for my 2 girls growing up, the mother had her own agenda. So needless to say the stirring were born, I want to dominate, pull her hair while I ride her and spank her whilst uttering all sorts of demeaning verbiage to excite my growing erection. The way I see it we both sport a need opposite to our natural selves through role play. If I were to do it 24/7 it would not generate as much excitement in fact I'd probably up the level to achieve the same satisfaction. As a gentleman my alter ego is based on desire, lust which is exactly what a woman wants... someone who pays attention enthusiastically to her needs as well as his. ying and yang Whats my ideal? A woman that is quiet and submissive that likes to wear PVC or string bikini, who likes to be blind folded bound to the bed, objectified knowing she turns him on and on and on and will talk dirty to please his desires while he teases and pleases her with his authority and manhood willing to be pushed to new limits as she obeys her man/master with trust knowing her crawling , kneeling and doey submissive eyes up turned to him is her gift to him as it is returned to her. Being man handled breasts pulled and pinched while slamming you hard being called a slut and all manner of names shows the intensity of the relationship as each turn on the other with their fetish and their Dom/Sub proclivities.... the end result mutual bonding, love and satisfaction knowing the focus is all on her/him and no other. |
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Looking for a playmate, thats into kink and whose into spanking role playing need this want this |
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chemistry is super important from there its a matter of exploration. Objectifying your partner is important as all women want to me adored and lusted by their man. Looking for a submissive that wants to please and willing to take direction. It's a 2 way street take care of your woman and she'll take care of you. I lick pussy cos I enjoy being sucked. I like to spank, and pull hair whilst she enjoys the my rough behaviour.. lets face it rough sex is all about passion and that is fueled by lust and extending our limits. My dominant side shows thru when I let it out, the more submissive you are the more dominant I become. I have no time for close minded people.. I enjoy seeing the letting go when my partner becomes as naughty and corrupt as I am... partners bonded by our complimentary desires.... I love and cuddle and fuck and spank among other things .... looking for a like minded individual. |
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spanking, submission, dominant control is the gasoline on the fire. Revel in it!!! let go!!! names like slut, cunt, whore!!!are stimulusnwords we use while we are in rut. It puts us in a place, costumes add to the fog of sex, and our fetish triggers our rutting behavior. I like to control spank and talk dirty..... worlds apart from my day to day life. Its fantasy and as such living 24/7 in the genre only dulls the blade of lust and excitement. Fucking is all about objectification!!! Loving, cuddling is also necessary but never the twain shall meet!!! |
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Soon to be an empty nester how strange will that be? For all you women looking for excitement its always best to have a few things in common. Perhaps I'm just a wanna be Dominant all I know is that there has to be respect on both sides first. I happen to like being in control over my partner which fits like a hand in glove for a submissive. Spanking has always been a turn on and along with that comes the language of sex which alot different than that of live. When a guy calls his partner a slut he is doing 3 things. Asserting his authority on his sex goddess, raising her to the same level as himself ( guys are natural sluts and we are looking for the same intensity in our female and 3 sex talk is mens foreplay...want to get your guy hard, arroused and in a state of lust for you tell him what a slut you are and you need to get fucked or you'll explode..it works and what woman doesn't want to be the object of a mans rutting lust !!! A submissive must be compliant , not talk back with the prime objective to arrouse the man to dominate and use your body the way you wNt it to be used....perfume, sexy clothing such as latex , shiny lipstick and heels as well as being cuffed is a wet dream for any man...my dominance has many layers ... 1st to protect and see she comes to no harm. Subs want/ demand their Dom to control them, tell them what to wear, how to act, how to please him and turn him on...You are his possession his object of lust...my last sub had a high powered job she gave out orders and decisions but after hours all she wanted was to take orders ... such as never wearing a bra or panties in my presence, always a shaved pussy, kneeling at the front door for my arrival wearing what i instructed her to...plus to show her her place crawling on all 4's collared and leashed, or standing in a corner naked repeating a prepared line to make her not forget, spanking was either punishment or pleasure or tying her up to the 4 poster bed...in any case she had learned that I had access to her body anytime i liked for some heavy petting, foreplay or punishment. It beats watching sports and her obedience requires my attention 24/7 which is every womans dream which goes in hand to be noticed ,loved and cherished....Dom and Sub feed off each other and push each others limits.... |
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Perhaps it's my high sex drive or maybe being blessed with an 8" cock that contibutes to my insaitable lust and desire to dominate and fuck. I tried to hang onto my last sub but alas my desires are linked to how I emotionally feel about the person. That can be a 2 edged sword as the more you care the more your dominant edge is diminished for fear of hurting the one you live, conversely the less you care the less intrest you have and your eye wanders. So a happy balance is whats needed...preferrable someone that enjoys being spanked, rough sex and very submissive. I have noticed from this site and personally that bi-sexual woman seem to be the norm in the bdsm community , curious that and not being a jealous person I have no complaints with a sub relieving herself with some female company..it goes against nature otherwise....and why I get harder than steel when I spank a woman is beyond me, I just know it enhances my lust and need to dominate and train... |
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I often wonder why so many people seem to be so extreme? I personally love the control the dominance, but I have to wonder keeping it up 24/7 takes the passion out of it. Balance is the key to everything in life and it gets old, like, say eating your favourite food everyday of your life...I think those of us who enjoy our kink like to push the bounderies cos lets face it the missionary position just doesn't cut it!! As much as I am looking for my ideal woman, I know you can't strap your woman to the 4 postwr 24/7 and also tend to the more mundane things in life. It's true that guys want a good woman to enjoy in every day life but a total slut in the bedroom.. why? cos we guys are sluts ourselves.... we think about sex all the time and it doesn't hurt to have someone that matches your own kink. A big part of arrousal is visual but don't underestimate the power of sex talk!!! I personally enjoy the control and obedience of a woman who sucks and talks to my cock, fully knowing that she is priming that cock for maximum ejaculation!! I personally have treated my women very well, the Dom side appears from no where (spontaneously) perhaps by pulling her hair back, grabbing her tit and roughly handling her which shows her the heat and urgency of my passion....there has to be complete acceptance on her part, a true Submissive that enjoys and embraces being taken and useded in what ever manner, indoors, outdoors, obeying his commands without question knowing he is both her protector, lover, best friend and Master...knowing her role as sub/slave, bitch, slut is rewarded by her needs being fullfilled and the satisfaction that her man finds her hot and sexually desirable ......
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It's pretty special when you can connect with a potential partner that understands your needs and compliments your needs. I have a sub friend that told me she couldn't understand what it is to a dominant. I guess the same could be said about being a submissive... I have to say I groan with pleasure and arrousal when I can dominate a woman, guiding and instructing her to my pleasure and so doing she gets off. The toys, fetish wear, all assist in the flame of lust, but let me tell you girls it's the verbal vulgar banter that transends the experience to another level. For me I need to break free of being politially correct and unleash the lusty beast within. Pulling a womans hair, stripping her of her morals fuels the desire to fuck and dominate her, your head swimming with pure arrousal knowing the you are both on a parralell course revelling in your carnal frenzy. |
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It's pretty special when you can connect with a potential partner that understands your needs and compliments your needs. I have a sub friend that told me she couldn't understand what it is to a dominant. I guess the same could be said about being a submissive... I have to say I groan with pleasure and arrousal when I can dominate a woman, guiding and instructing her to my pleasure and so doing she gets off. The toys, fetish wear, all assist in the flame of lust, but let me tell you girls it's the verbal vulgar banter that transends the experience to another level. For me I need to break free of being politially correct and unleash the lusty beast within. Pulling a womans hair, stripping her of her morals fuels the desire to fuck and dominate her, your head swimming with pure arrousal knowing the you are both on a parralell course revelling in your carnal frenzy. |
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It's pretty special when you can connect with a potential partner that understands your needs and compliments your needs. I have a sub friend that told me she couldn't understand what it is to a dominant. I guess the same could be said about being a submissive... I have to say I groan with pleasure and arrousal when I can dominate a woman, guiding and instructing her to my pleasure and so doing she gets off. The toys, fetish wear, all assist in the flame of lust, but let me tell you girls it's the verbal vulgar banter that transends the experience to another level. For me I need to break free of being politially correct and unleash the lusty beast within. Pulling a womans hair, stripping her of her morals fuels the desire to fuck and dominate her, your head swimming with pure arrousal knowing the you are both on a parralell course revelling in your carnal frenzy. |
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I sometimes wonder if there are any kinky females here in the London area. Sure chemistry, good friends and love all make for the ideal mate/partner...the submissive nature of a woman is a bonus as it complements my nature..hand in glove. I work from home, my 2 nearly grown up daughters are either at work or college so entertaining to both our needs is not a problem. Ideal situation? To enter into a relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend and explore our needs together. Looking for a woman that gets off being spanked, and understands that rough language is just as much a stimulant as being fucked sensless. Kinky is just spiced up sex...looking for my Spice Girl :) |
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My persona is that of a kind easy going generous fellow and yet it is nourished by my delicious deviant side that lusts when I take control and submitting her to my will. Her body is a bonus but its her submissive devotion to my needs and hers that drive me so. I need a friend, lover and thoroughly kinky female that understands and excepts their nature and mine. |
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Simply looking for a sub curious woman that would like to explore her submissive sexual nature, looking to train her in the joys of bdsm.. including spanking, collaring,bondage, oral, and sex talk. This Dom adores submissive women and is here to protect her whilst teaching her to enjoy her submissive nature....I'm discrete and advetursome , I think a woman is most sexy when she gives her trust to him, kneeling in front of him anxious to to submit to his will, molding her to enjoy the thrill her man is going to give her to satisfy submissive nature.. beginers 101 try it on for size...not hard core ... vanilla.... contact me and I'll respond to your questions... must be in the London area!! |
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P.S. I would love to post my photo but I have to be discrete. sucks huh, hmmm what am I looking for? Love, best friend, sexual adventure!!!! Being self employed I had a nurse I met that had the time during the day to explore her naughty side. She too had a reputation to hide so we met at grill where she changed her clothes and gave me her panties as I requested she'd do ... call it a test. She was very curious about the whole lifestyle and stripped on the spot when I ordered her to, at my home..being from a small town she was remarkably uninhibited. If I have learned one thing in life it's valuing a woman that is uninhibited and always loves to suck cock...otherwise it's an uphill climb.
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