Time passes and life goes on whether we participate and enjoy it or not. We have little control over the things that excite us and turn us on but we can go with those things. "Midway along life's journey…" some of us make discoveries and some of us accept discoveries about ourselves that we have already made but most of us let the moment escape and paradise if truly lost. As we understand our nature and perhaps accept the fact that we are what we are, many of us lose our way in life and let our nature control our lives. We are complex beings, “not this crude matter”, and part of our complexity is our the duality of our nature (male and female, dominant and submissive, slave and master, leader and follower, light and dark, good and evil, and so on) and it is difficult to explain one without comparing to the other. Maybe without both, neither has meaning.

I seek a woman who has a nature companion to mine and if what I have written does not strike a chord within you, our paths are not meant to cross. It is also sad but true that we travel in small groups and it is likely that we may have common interests but lack connectivity, we may travel in the same direction but on different roads.

I am in a vanilla marriage and intend to stay in it. I tried mixing kink in a marriage and it didn't work very well. I have ample time to devote to kink interests, both during regular business hours and after hours. My occupation involves using computers to control equipment that uses a lot of electricity and I work at night quite a bit on a compressed work schedule that allows a lot of free time.

I welcome contacts by MF couples where either requires a litttle extra attention.