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stillsearching99

In my mind, the idea of a girl being able bring you to heel and render you helpless with nothing more than an evil grin and a gentle touch is infinitely more erotic that a yelling, angry, leather-clad Amazon. I'm looking for a woman who is sweet and sensual, but under the sheets becomes a devious and sassy Mistress. I'm looking for a woman who doesn't think that in order to be dominant, they must sacrifice their femininity. Who believes that pink lace panties and a feather are just as effective in domination as black leather and a whip. I get off on psychological domination - the notion of control and helplessness. I want to find a girl who is as smart as me, who challenges me, and whom I can worship and pamper and spoil to my hearts content. Unfortunately, it seems like almost all "mainstream" dominant women I encounter seem to primarily get off on exerting aggression and causing pain. Or extracting money. This is all very boring to me. The archetypal "bitch" dominatrix simply does not interest me at all, mainly because the biggest emotion I pick up on during the act is anger. If you don't see submission as a gift, as something to treasure and protect and nurture, then we probably won't get along... That isn't to say, however, that I don't like physical domination and punishment - just not when its only for the sake of causing pain and venting anger. If I do something naughty ... well I'd be pretty disappointed if I went unpunished =)
I've heard that, for what I'm looking for, it might be easier to just find a "vanilla" girl who has a subtle kinky side. Maybe that's true, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to search anyways! I'm pretty shy and I don't really like posting pictures of myself that much, so here's me hiding behind ma doggie. Feel free to contact me or ask me anything, if we hit it off I'll send you a picture then =)
12/4/2010 8:13:25 PM
Yea! On here for 5 minutes and already getting preyed on! I must be speshul.
Whats that? Interesting, cool sounding, attractive girl wants to chat? OH BUT I HAVE A GREAT IDEA, LETS GO USE THIS TOTALLY UNNECESSARY PAY SITE TO CONTINUE DOING WHAT WE'RE DOING RIGHT NOW FOR FREE!
/facepalm
blackswinger
 
 Age: 28
 Greensburg, Pennsylvania