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| I like to explore my own head and the heads of others; good conversation, debate and people-watching are how I really enjoy to spend my time, although I have been known to spend hours getting lost in my own thoughts, I suppose that comes from great memories and a vivid imagination. Consequently, for me, play has to largely feature getting into my head.
I have many likes and loves within BDSM, however I also still have a lot I wish to explore and wish to develop and be pushed into being the best I can be. I am far from a door-mat, you wouldn't find me in B&Q with 'welcome' branded on my forehead. I am opinionated, can be sharp-tongued, and head-strong. I don't believe these qualities make me a poor sub/slave, they just need to be accepted, reigned in from time to time and frankly appreciated. I can be a great person to have a conversation with, and am always happy to back up my thoughts and beliefs with my reasoning and have learned to reluctantly admit when I am wrong. I am well-educated and pride myself on this, I love literature, history and politics and whilst I understand that not everybody is passionate about the same things as me, I really do appreciate passion for something (other than sex) in a person.
I am not new here, I discovered my need to submit in my mid-teens and began to explore. I found myself in a very intense relationship which has come to an end. However, I want to relish in this and realise that all elements of your past develop who you are as a person. I am grateful for my past, and believe I got a good footing on grasping who I am and I want to learn more and be pushed to my full potential.
I am really just looking to talk to people on here, I find different perceptions and beliefs around the world of BDSM fascinating because they vary so much, so feel free to get in touch if you have your own view you want to share. I am not looking for, nor will I be supplying wank-fodder mind, so be warned ;-)
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