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i hate writing profiles as it seems not many who see them pay much attention to them, read them and if they do they just ignore some of the most vital parts in them and continue to do just the opposite but here goes anyway... to no offense to anyone right off the start: i am only interested in OLDER straight dominant males. this means i do not wish for younger men, especially those 30s or younger attempting to be dominant...or be my domininant. this also means i do not wish for a switch or a domme or subs, etc....it is of no offense again to anyone but it is choice and preference.... dont start out emails going around calling me fat pig, whore, slut or anything of that nature and tellling me i am less worthy then you just because you call yourself a Dom...if anyone is going to call me slut it will be the one and only one who may be come my Dom...he is the one who can and will have that right....also dont ask for pics , nekkied pics, and ask what i look like....if you are that superficial i dont need you. i am human just as we all are there is NO perfection, while some may be better you are not perfect no one is in this world...we all have flaws visiible and non visible some more obvisious....and those who say they are flawless need to take a better look in the mirror. i am me flaws and all and not to ashamed to admit it. some i can fix some i cant but hell i am still me i am still human, woman and submissive...those who choose to ignore that....fine thats your loss but know you may be passing up a very good thing. while i am very submissive to the core.....i beleive this lifestyle is more then just sex. yes it is part of it BUT it is NOT all of it. there is the matter of the mind the control that overwhelming feeling to have that need to want to serve...to be with each other. protocols/balance/structure etc..... respect is always given till it is no longer deserved....ppl say it should be earned i guess to some degree a higher respect is but lets face it.....respect is just common courtsey.....from one person to the next...you use it in every day life...when you greet ppl, bump into somoene and say ...sorry ,excuse me, etc.....so there for again respect is always given till it is no longer deserved in anyway.... trust on the other hand is a must and that is to be earned....trust is a very fragile thing and can be broken all to easily...with false words and dishonesty and just a lack of insensitivty. communication and honesty is key here.....,gain that trust....safety....without it you have nothing. so i guess all in all, i seek a Man who is strong ( not mean ) in who and what he is as a Master/Dom....one who accepts you for who and what you are...flaws and all. One who can and will guide you in the right directions not only for himself but for you....to help you learn and grow....to be better for both of you. to of course test and push limits BUT respecting them and feelings as well. while i am submissive and have felt this way for many years i have not had alot of real expereince....i have talked to several over the years online but of course they didnt get very far....i was supposed to meet one in real but turned out he lied about several things...but anyway...i am still here trying to find the right one....hopefuly to be able to express my submissive self once and for all. while being of submissive nature, that does not make me less human or woman. i still have a brain while it gets a bit duh at times i still think on my own. i do my own things and attempt to have my own life....i have interests and hobbies....that i explore and do without or without anyone at my side...having one encourage me and support me is always nice though ok thats enough for now....ask anything i will answer the best i can.
12/26/2011 2:41:09 PM

Sad that even when you post to someone they just dont GET what a jackass they are/were and how rude they are or even how offensive they were, OR i guess if they did get the hint they dont have what it takes as an adult to say something, even a pathetic attempt at an apolgy even if they dont really mean it. lol

 

i am losing faith in humanity more and more with each passing day and meeting certain people who claim they are all that and a bag of chips, when in reality they need to take a look in the mirror and take a reassestment of whats staring back at them. to see and figure out who they really are as a person vs what is actually reflecting back at them. some may have the good reflection BUT a horrid inside and personality.

12/24/2011 1:32:09 PM

Merry and Happy Holidays to ALL.................

 

May they be filled with joy and happiness....

 

Have fun and be safe out there.

12/21/2011 11:13:08 AM

Apparently i offended someone with something i said or slow responses,i know it wasnt for rudeness because i only save that for those MOST deserving and even then they dont always get the earful they should.( that i have been blocked ) for that im sorry but then i guess im not all that sorry. life tends to get in the way for slowness and as far as what i say, im me, im honest, im to the point, probably to brutally honest for some. then again there are many times when i dont say what i should when i should........damn vicious circle.

12/21/2011 4:25:00 AM

Ppl should always take a good LONG hard look at themselves in the mirror to see their very own flaws before being judgemental and casting stones out at others.........

 

 

 

Very tired of those who tend to 'THINK' they are better then others because they are unable to accept differences, and feel ppl with differences are less 'quality' ppl.

12/19/2011 12:47:53 PM

Living and learning every day............though i wish i would get a new and better lesson then the one ive known all my life.

danicamendoza
 
 Age: 18
 Burbank, California