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	The things that fill my time are artsy, crafty, and geeky. Im perky and frivolous but still wise and intelligent- always look at the world with a mixture of wonder and scrutiny. I am a leftist and an athiest. I have a cat and a bunch of pet mice. Im originally from the Chicago area and have a ton of opinions on food. Best described as a masochist with a victimization fetish. I dont usually like tradition bdsm play and Im not really even a sub. I have a high pain threshold and like having those limits pushed (with rapport and trust). I especially enjoy extremely violent rapeplay with people who can handle me fighting for my life. I like plenty of other types of victimization. Breathplay and bloodplay are wonderful. I am a dacryphilliac and cry pretty easily, also cry when I orgasm pretty often even with vanilla sex. Im into daddydaughter play but mostly as a little victim. I like lots of different types of people and types of play otherwise (Im a switch), but this is the kind of play Im most looking for right now. I am a relationship anarchist and prefer to live alone. Im also aromantic. I dont often get into serious relationships, I prefer good friends that fuck. Im an insomniac, say hi whenever. I might take a bit to get back to you if at all but I read everything that is sent to me.

9/7/2015 11:33:54 PM

I had a very specific profile, but I wasn't having luck with that on this website specifically and happened to only attract local stalkers. I have since taken my face pictures down because of this. My profile picture is a face pic but it's a strange angle and cut off in such a way that I'm not really recognizable. I figured I'd try this again with a broader spectrum of my interests in mind, since I am pretty much down for most things.

12/3/2014 4:39:47 PM

I'm not going to make a list of dos and don'ts and rules for messaging me. I'll answer you if you're interesting and ignore you if you're not. I have zero obligation to you. Simple.

12/2/2014 6:28:33 PM

Limits and Aftercare needs...
Hard: Poopies, Bestiality, Ass to mouth, Awful hygiene, Permanent mutilation, Fire play, Dunking, Fetishizing my flab, Most verbal humiliation, Gaining, Foot related anything, Undiscussed rape or molestation for fucks sake!

Soft: Bruises and cuts need to be discussed*, Swallowing cum has the potential to make me puke, Giving a rimjob has to be with the right person and they have to be clean...
I think everything else is go... If I think of more, I'll add it.
Aftercare: Anything that puts me in a headspace or makes me cry requires aftercare whether I ask for it or not. And I probably won't ask for it and pretend like I'm okay.

Requirements are that aftercare lasts at least a half hour. No TV or music is involved. Communication about what has happened and what I like or dislike. Cuddles and petting. If it's particularly intense and I'm having trouble getting out of my headspace, I need to be bear hugged and talked softly and assured that I'm safe. I may thrash some but don't let go. Sometimes when it's a sexual type of play I want gentle sex and slow kissing or to just cuddle while I play with my vibrator.

*I love bruises and cuts and my parents, who I live with, are aware that I do some play that ends with marks, but outside of my house and the people who know my lifestyle, obvious injuries can get me in trouble. So the timing has to be right so that I have time to heal before being social.*