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starhill

Wow, I hate writing these things... Well, I am a 25 year old male trying to jump back into the scene after a year or so break. The main reason for the break was that, while exploring the scene was fun, I always felt a bit disconnect for partners on a personal level. It's hard to find someone to connect with with regular dating, and of course throwing BDSM on top of it just complicated things a bit. But dating in the vanilla world wasn't that satisfying, so here I am again, exploring the scene. Honestly, I don't have a lot of faith in CM, but I figured every resource helps. As for me, I am a college graduate currently working in the tech field (I know, I know, it makes all the ladies swoon). I live on my own, and in my spare time I follow sports, work on photography, place guitar (horribly), enjoying video games and good beer, and hate writing blurbs like this. I am much more of a social person, and would rather get to know you over coffee than spill every detail of my life out on a personal site. As for BDSM, what I am looking for is a weird balance. I am looking not only for a sub but a partner. Someone to explore life with but someone to control. Someone who is an equal, but at the same time a submissive (I know, a bit contradicting!) I am very protective, but also big on self improvement via tasks and discipline. Behavior control, as it were. But at the same time, I don't want that to be the entire focus of the relationship, but rather one focus of many.
naughtynatalie15
 
 Age: 29
  New York