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***Update: I am now in a relationship with a great woman that I met on CollarMe. If you contact me, please know it should be for platonic reasons only. I am a good looking guy with a career in the interior. I was in a long term loving relationship many years, but that was essentially vanilla. That relationship came to an natural ending and I am entering a new phase in my life. In essence, a new start. I am single with no attachments and no children. For the most part, I love living a mainly vanilla life. However, I cannot suppress or deny my urges to engage in kink and BDSM. My ideal situation is one where I found a dominant woman for a loving relationship, but one that is Female Led behind closed doors. If you are unsure about what is a Female Led Relationship (FLR), I suggest doing some checks on google. So, to put it another way, I am mainly looking for a service-orientated FLR that is spiced up with layers of BDSM, chastity, denial, etc. Those activities would be pursued as per your interests. It seems to me that it is pretty tough to find a long term relationship with someone who has common interests. Add in BDSM and kink, and we are into needle in a haystack type of territory. In terms of what I find hot: first and foremost, I like and want women to be utterly selfish in the bedroom. I am there to please you, not the other way around. You should be used to taking what you want. I also love the idea of being locked into a chastity device for extended periods of time, being made to earn my release through good behaviour and obedience. And then, or course, all of the usual costumes, etc. So, I have spelled out my ideal circumstances. But, I am also realistic. Consequently, I am also willing to play and have fun with down to earth people, and I can travel to do so. There need not be a serious relationship component to this. I realize distance can be an issue, but we can always have fun with periodic play times and visits. Thanks for reading my profile.
isaslave
 
 Age: 44
  Iowa