howdy:

 1. Totally physical guy with a fucked up kinky mind: Limits are limiting, guidance beyond comfort zone is a prize, etc. Not a tough guy by any stretch, but does enjoy some rough/freaky/painful stuff. I don't go into any situation with a list of stuff I wont do, this extends to most aspects of my life. I'm not fearless, insane, or an idiot, though.  Feel like showing a sub your spin on things? Great.

 2. Totally physical guy compelled to submit to and be trained to the behest of a dominant man/men: This came into focus years ago and the itch is way more intense than for whatever thrill rides are hoped for in #1. Not easily socialized [but socializes easily]. Read: if you want to bust my balls, you may need to use a hammer the first time [hopefully not though]. No axe to grind, just the way I am. 
 
 3. I like to play games, I like to play houdini, I push back sometimes. 

 4. I am always interested in burning more time rather than less time on this sort of thing [i.e. a week is better than a day, a month is better than a week, year better than a month, etc..].  Sometimes that's easy to do, sometimes it's not so easy.  I have a glacial sense of time.

 5.  I think that some plain speaking is best way to see if we are on the same page, if you disagree you will have to tell me how you want to be addressed!

Cheers!