2/4/2015 3:53:10 PM: so when did the art of friendly conversation die, i have met many submissives/slaves/pets over my time in this lifestyle. Some have become great friends others never became anything because fate and destiny would not allow those seeds to even be planted. I have strayed away from the path that i was trained and taught to walk and have paid alot for that choice. Now i begin a new journey, in a new city, new state, new job and i have regained my focus. A wise mentor once told me that there is truly a force that guides our lives( yea i know it may sound like star wars or something crazy). This is my year to rebuild and catch up on the life i should have been living all these years. Now all i need is a sub that is really loyal 

9/28/2010 9:52:22 PM: ok i am just wondering are there any real submissives left in this life. i mean when did saying hello and asking for a friendly conversation go out of style

9/11/2010 11:27:53 AM: i just wonder sometimes is it that hard to write a response that says more than just hello and thank you. i sit here and i remember the time when subs and slaves knew their place and when you showed kindness and respect you recieved the same in kind. I wonder sometimes should i be like these other Dom/Masters on this site and just start off a conversation by calling a slave or a sub a bitch or a whore. would that get me the results i seek. well the answer to that is no i will not change who i am just because subs many of the subs on here don't know who they are or just in this life for a few kinky self serving pleasures. when did friendship go out of style? just some food for thought

7/11/2010 5:29:24 AM: This Site and the people who populate it sometimes really amaze me. Having a PhD in Psychology does help with my understanding of the multiple personalities that i have encountered. i have noticed that most subimissives always go for the outer appearance rather than knowledge, yet they wonder why their search continues....i have spent 19yrs of my life perfecting my skills through every experience and through all of my education. i have had many tell me through out my life that i am a rare find a black man with multiple degrees and yet i have a kind heart. but for all that i have gained in life i still travel this road alone. should i have traded substance and knowledge for surface wrapping?

4/19/2010 12:16:53 PM: I wonder sometimes about the people on this site.  i mean you have a conversation with someone and the just turn out to be not what they claim to be so i wonder are there any real people on this site