Collarspace

I think Im unique in the BDSM world, I really only enjoy the B part. Growing up I discovered I had a strange interest in things that would confine or restrict the body, such as safety harnesses, medical braces, or tight clothing. I loved seeing others in this gear, and imagined what it would feel like if I was in it, or better yet, forced to wear things.
In my 20s I started acquiring various gear and clothing, and started going to BDSM clubs. Although I like seeing the activities there and what everyone was wearing, I just couldnt wrap my head around the whole domsub scene. I had no desire to kneel before someone, or to have someone under my control. Unless it only involved bondage. So I was rather confused.. I didnt know where I fit in.
Thinking I would never find a partner who is the same way, I stopped going. But still enjoyed wearing my gear at home from time to time. I married the love of my life, and although she doesnt at all share my interest, she is accepting and plays along at times. And just recently encouraged me to get back in the scene and make new friends..
So, thats why Im here and a little more open to find friends and events. I already have my love.