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Respectfully, ssally,
i am a sub with almost thirty years’ experience. Nonetheless, i believe i have only touched the edges of my submission and would love to find a Domme who will guide me deeper into my subspace. Submission is for me an opportunity to relinquish the control i clutch to so tightly during the rest of my life, and i want to have the restrictions it imposes lifted. i have limits, but they are few (and reasonable), and i am open to having the soft ones pushed in order that the Domme may exert Her control in the manner of Her choosing.
i am willing to answer any and all questions about my experiences and how i feel about them now, how i felt about them at the time.
i live in the Atlanta area but am able to travel periodically. i am married and thus not available 24/7; my wife and i are good friends and professional colleagues, but she has no interest in anything to do with sex including D/s.
Just to be perfectly open, i have virtually no experience in role playing. It’s something that’s never been of interest to me, nor to most of the Dommes i have had the privilege to serve.
i am primarily a sexual sub, with the caveat that while the things i am most adept at (and most enjoy) involve use of my sexual organs and/or the Dommes, i am very much into receiving pain the manner that the Domme wishes to inflict it, in or on other parts of my body.
i’m colorblind and, to be frank, pretty style blind as well. my favorite color, of those i can identify (my colorblindness, like most men’s, manifests itself in an inability to recognise colors, not an inability to see them), is vermilion. How a Woman dresses matters to me only as much as it matters to Her: i am equally please to serve a Domme wearing lingerie or leather, jeans or a sheath. Or nothing at all.
i love being spanked -- at length and with the Domme’s hand, a paddle or a strap. There is a stinging heat that accrues as the blows reign down, especially if the intensity is varied from light and intermittent to unceasing and severe. Spanking is inciting: It excites me and prepares me emotionally for whatever else i am to experience at any give time. While the rest happens, i retain an “afterglow” of pleasure and discomfort throughout, and welcome interruptions in order that the Domme may refresh those sensations.
Anal insertions are among my favorites. i have taken everything from strap-ons to dildos to Mistress’s fist. Butt plugs, then, are thoroughly pleasurable. i prefer longer ones and thicker ones that reach deeply enough to cause initial discomfort. When one is are left in place long enough (and “jiggled,” or i’m otherwise reminded of it presence), i’m able to remain aware of it (especially if Mistress has elected to use the vibrating kind). Removal and re-insertion -- particularly if done firmly, quickly and repeatedly -- re-establishes the pain; that is most welcome.
Orgasm is less important to me than it is to most men (which is not to say i don’t enjoy it. i do, very much. Denial is, therefore, only matters if i have been led to the edge of it and not been allowed to experience it. Even then, unless i’m edged repeatedly orgasm isn’t something i crave. i do like, however, both being brought to that edge again and again, especially if Mistress derives pleasure from it.
i appreciate the opportunity to provide the information You’ve required. i hope it pleases You, and that i will be able to learn more about being in Your service. There’s no photo on my profile; i’m a slightly public figure (in the arts) and thus need to remain discreet. i will, however, provide a face photo at our instruction.
Respectfully,
jay
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