i am a gentle, loving submissive who respects this lifestyle very much. i do not consider it a game or roleplaying, but believe in my heart that it is who i am. i have been uncollared for a few years and although i have met a few wonderful Dominants, i don't believe in velcro collars. i consider a collar to be more than a prop and one not to be taken lightly. i have been in the lifestyle for more than a decade and have been able to form my own opinions through observations and my own experiences (sorry folks, even though i am not a *brat* nor a *wannabe*, i still have opinions lol)

i seek One that will compliment me as much as i will compliment Him while serving Him with my heart and passion. although i enjoy many aspects of bdsm, i feel that is one of the perks but the true aspect and element of 24/7 D/s lifestyle is the true meat on the bone and gravy.

i have read alot of profiles before signing up to this site and have noticed that one of the most common misconceptions of new Dominants is the thinking that a submissive does not "have the right" to question a potential Master.

Communication and trust are the most important building blocks that will uphold Your relationship. Prohibiting even a potential submissive from questioning You as a man and as a Dominant will only establish strong barriers to possible trust. Questions from each side of the developing partnership are the only concrete manner for both potential partners to get to know each other as people. Exhibiting a desire for "secrecy", even under the vanilla guise of maintaining that so~called "mystery" does not apply in the process of establishing a potential relationship.

A Dominant will understand that words such as integrity, character, honesty, fairness and consistency represent concepts that are apparent throughout all areas of a Dominant's life. They are not mere words to be used and applied selectively when they may be to Your advantage. Not only are those words representative of the character of a Dom, they are hallmarks of the character of a Dominant, and imperative in One who would be called a Master.