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I am a Dom who plays seriously and with humor. I am compassionate in my play and all encompassing in my control and power. That power is given to me through respect honesty and chemistry. I do very much love the dance. I always play with passion.
Family is very important to me and I seek someone who values it as well. I am a very honest and loyal person who believes in friends and family. I love children and someday would like to be a father and not just in name. I need someone with whom I have great chemistry in and out of the bedroom. Someone which I can converse and get along with and whose company I really enjoy. I have had the pleasure of real life 24/7 D/s relationships. Most of my relationships wind up being long term. I am not a cyber dominant; real life only. If you are looking for a friend, lover, Dom, even an experienced Master or any combination thereof lets talk. I am always open to talking and making new friends. I would be happy to share all I know about the lifestyle, and what it is about. If we have chemistry I would be happy to help you experience it all and discover who and what you are inside. Submissives need a Dom with the right hand to show her the way and to give her the experience she desires and longs for. As a submissive or slave you choose to serve a Dominant. It is part of you, a part of who you are, and it is embedded in your sexuality and mentality. You are either born a submissive or you are not. Just like a Dominant. I am not arrogant and I am not possessive to hide my insecurity but I am a natural born leader.
As compared to submissives, slaves have much fewer limits and are usually significantly more masochistic. A skilled Dominant can lead a submissive into true self discovery of her true nature as a slave. She will for the most part do whatever is expected of her to please her Dom. But there will always be certain limits that must not be crossed of she is to maintain love and respect for her Master.
A submissive or slaves obedience is a gift and should always be treated as such. She is an extremely valuable and given the proper love, she is one of the most elegant sensual and beautiful things in the world. I will carefully and attentively care for and protect her with great passion and show her the most sincere love she will ever know. I also believe that great d/s can be spiritual.
I am extremely open minded about my partners wants and desires and as such I am not a true sadist. I do have a sadistic darker side that I enjoy releasing with a woman who appreciates it. But before I do you must convince me it is what you really desire. I like to play wide variety of ways and not just with pain. I have never had anyone complain that I was not extreme enough for them.
You should be disease free and drug free like me and you should use birth control and I prefer not to use condoms. I a 5 foot 9. Height is not important to me but if it is to you I must say I have not figured out a mechanism to make myself taller. LOL
I do not believe that just because one is independent and opionionated does not mean that one cannot also be a true submissive. I would argue that at the core of d/s is a power exchange and my control will set you free. It is possible to have one relationship in which I am Dom/sadist/daddy/master all in one. The power exchange sits at the core of the relationship. The control can be sensual and romantic. I very much like forced sex and fantasy rape but only if after we discuss it we are both clear it is consensual. Bottom line is there are many ways to play but all require communication. Communication is the key.
Don't write me a simple Email when contacting me. I want to know about you and what you are looking for so be open honest and descriptive. Just be yourself and I promise we will get along great. I need someone I can converse with and share a life. I am not looking to talk to someone that if we click online and over the phone who is not willing to meet within a reasonable period of time and see if we have that special chemistry.
I would like to tell you a little about my non sex related interests. As you might guess from my on line name I like sports. I particularly like team sports. In fact a good relationship I my view is a team sport. I played college ice hockey and college football. I still play ice hockey. I have run the Chicago Marathon three times. I lift weights every week and own a road bicycle which I enjoy taking on weekend rides. I love to ski. I also am a sports fan but prefer to play than to watch.
I love my job and have nothing bad to say about it other than sometimes I can work too much. It is nice to own your own business. I am very proud of my professional success.
You can never know enough about d/s and events like Kinky Kollege,Shibaricon and Sinsations are a great chance to learn and hang out with some super cool people. Galleria Domain 2 is undoubtedly the best club in Chicago. Although I am not huge fan of public play, there is no denying that these places are a gold mine of like minded kinkypeople.
I have never been married and I have no children. I have a great family most of which live near Chicago. I love to read and really am a very curious person. I have been reading biography's, history, and politics. I have spent my whole life involved in politics. But fiction, philosophy and psychology are of interest to me. One of my hobbies is woodworking. I made my dinning room table. Right now I have been the general contractor to my Condo rehab. I did the kitchen and now working on the master bathroom. I love movies especially movies like House of Games and Spanish Prisoner.( Music Box) I go to live theater regularly in Chicago.( i.e., Steppenwolf, Court, Goodman) I love to travel and have been to Europe many times. I plan to get to Asia very soon. I love to host parties and do so on a regular basis. I love most kinds of music. Recently I have been to a few blues bars.
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| Age: 20 |
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