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Its been quite a while since I have updated my profile. A lot has changed, Im growing as a person in the lifestyle and learning more of myself in the process. The more you learn, the safer you will feel and the greater your self-confidence will grow. This is absolutely true for me. In the mean time of me waiting to meet my Mr.Right Dominant I have learned I feel safer to learn on the flip side so long as I am safe and another dominant is over me in a sense. I have become a bit of a switch for this purpose. I have learned proper negotiation, and what aftercare is as a submissive and now I am learning the proper questions to ask for negotiation, setting up a guideline of what I want of a scene to be catered to the person that is bottoming for me, and to also have a thought, plan process so that I can build the scene and then float them gently back to reality and cuddle them in aftercare. This by no means changes who I seek as I very much am a babygirl submissive. This just means there is more of me. I am a strong girl and you need to understand thatI am equal to you until I give up that submission to you, empowering you over me.



I am a curvy babygirl sub. If youre not into a woman with meat on her bones then good luck with your search. Also, please dont just address me as girl other soft names are fine even baby girl.



I am not on this site often as I use another forum for events and meeting other like minded people.I am not new to the lifestyle per say, but I am because I am learning and moving at my own pace. It is sometimes hard to hold myself back like a kid in a candy store, but I want to learn this properly and safely so I remember I only get one first taste of things and want to make sure I enjoy every moment along the way.



To serve people takes dignity intelligence. What we do, does not define who we are. What defines us, is how well we rise after fallingWhy do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves upSometimes we need help thats why we reach out, doesnt mean its easy, but it is possible.A profile is merely a window of what I choose to share not all is revealed within I hate being bored will get into mischief somewhere. Want to know more ENGAGE.



Soft strips of the leather falls caress the inside of my bare arm making me shiver with the anticipation of what is to come. Theyre drawn away and a thwap breaks the silence other then my gasp of breath, not of pain but of excitement and I fight to stay still. Soft but clear, I say One Sir, please may I have another Oh yes, I have had a taste of the flogger and I want more. BDSM is not a game to me.



More to come.

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MissSequoia
 
 Age: 49
 Castro Valley, California