I'm 1 half of a bi couple. We're both male and both like girls and guys equally though I tend to go through phases. We've been together for about 10 years now so may as well be married. We are both software developers, recently bought our own house and generally have our shit together. We enjoy some geeky hobbies such as watching sci-fi, gaming and that kind of thing. We try to stay in shape and will be getting back into the gym ... at some point. Our relationship is very stable so we do enjoy playing with others (we've got a few things which are off limits but not much).
We've had quite a few casual playmates over the years but nothing long term or serious. Generally we've played with male friends or had short relationships with girls.
We'd really like to meet a girl who we get along well with and has similar interests to us. We would want her to be a pet or toy for both of us.
Friends and short term playmates are also ok and I'm into lots of kinks as you can see below so feel free to ask about anything.
10/31/2015 3:42:59 PM
So there's a lot of time wasters, no shit there. But if you just fancy some naughty chat then fine, just let me know. Don't be a coward and just disappear / block and don't play silly games pretending to be someone you are not.
If you don't have any pictures of yourself on your profile and refuse to send any I will assume you are fake and stop talking to you. In this day and age everyone has the ability to take digital photos and they don't even have to include your face to prove you are real.
Can't be bothered with BS any more.
5/16/2012 6:22:23 AM
As much as I appreciate the offer of chat requests, I can't do them during the day for the most part - send me a message instead :)
5/5/2012 4:43:06 AM
Sorry but if you send me a message that just says "hi" or "how are you" I will block you.
5/25/2010 1:59:58 PM
There are quite a few kinky things I'd like to try so I'll list a few here. I'll add more as I remember them.
Group sex (obviously), especially DP. We'd love to have a girl to sandwich between us.
Forced orgasms. I'd love to buy a magic wand to use on a willing girl ;)
Humiliation such as having you orgasm in public.
5/24/2010 10:56:15 AM
Please notice that I try to use both correct spelling and grammar.
If you can't handle this then we probably will not get along. The odd missed capital or u is ok but full on text speak just makes my teeth hurt.
5/16/2010 11:14:01 AM
Just a few things about my outlook on BDSM lifestyles:
I think the over the top gorean type stuff is tacky as hell.
Also is all this formal "under consideration" and "protecting" stuff seems pathetic to me.
The capitalisation of "he" or "she" also makes people look idiotic.
This also goes for age gaps - I think that old doms are all full of crap
and only into BDSM because they can't keep it up and their wives left
them. Any girl who falls for a guy like that is stupid in my opinion so I would want nothing to do with them.
I guess that I pretty much don't like the old traditional dom/domme types. Their ways seem tacky to me so if they appeal to you then we probably aren't compatible.
