I define myself as a sadomasochist, i enjoy watching others in pain and enjoy giving that pain, whilst receiving my self, but i find true fulfillment in servitude and submitting to the will of another. pleasing my master or mistress brings me great joy and contentment within my self. for a long time i had considered my self some what of a switch with a dominant side, but i have now realized that the streak in myself i thought was dominate was not, more the sadist in me trying to find a way out. i find joy in the pain of others not domination. i realize that now.

i am a really laid back down to earth type chick, love to laugh and have a good time total free spirit, i have been told a time or two. if you would like more info or to chat just send me an email!

My Ideal Person: i am looking for a master or mistress. i would like some one with experience seeing as how i am inexperienced in a lot of things. a good sense of humor is always welcome. open minded willing to try new things, with a laid back attitude . im not looking for and thing super serious, if i meet someone and we play for while and decide other wise then i will cross that bridge when i come to it. also i have to be able to talk to you about more than kink, you can not base any friendship/relationship solely on the discussion of kink and or sex, now thats not to say that kink may dominant the conversation but cant be the only thing i ever talk to a person about especially when getting to know some one. i am not interested in one night stands.i amlooking for some one that i can play with on a regular basis and build trust to push my limits.