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spankman36

a good man knows how to serve a good Woman, and inspire a great One.

i am unmarried, and i have an athletic build, having raced bicycles. i have body hair, but i will shave it all off if You wish (or You may remove it with wax for a fun activity if You are a true sadist).
i believe that a woman's desires come first, but anything You want to do with me should be commensurate with O/our mutual trust. when You want a man to fulfill Your needs, i will do my best, no matter how much pain or displeasure i have to endure. i will never lie to a woman, and i know that honesty is at the root of all good, healthy relationships.

i am seeking a Woman who knows when to put a man in his place, and how to get his servitude. i have little experience switching, and i believe it is every man's destiny to surrender to a Woman's power.
my only expectations are to have my loyalty and obedience rewarded with torture and humiliation. i have no greater desire than to please a woman who knows what She wants.

i subscribe to Feminine Domination, so my fetishes aren't as important as Yours, but here they are, if You want to know them: i am a masochist, so most hard-core activities aren't a problem for me. i'm slow to bruise and fast to heal.
i have a foot fetish and would enjoy kissing Your toes. i don't like the way the tobacco industry victimizes women, but if You smoke, my tongue is Your ashtray.

please contact me for a picture of my face. i will respond to all messages.

12/5/2010 7:17:57 AM
     i've been out of this for awhile, having put my "quest" on hold after being betrayed by someone i shouldn't have trusted.  we live and learn.  feel free to send a message.
4/29/2006 8:33:28 AM
     sometimes i think that there is really something wrong with me.
     i've been reading about other people's experiences in this lifestyle... i don't want to sound judgemental, but some people are really demented.  and yet, i find myself getting an erection when i read them, and quite frankly, most of my own fantasies are quite disturbing.

     i know that a lot of the blogs and stories aren't real.  that is why i need to interact with real people in the lifestyle who are honest with me about how they live, and aren't going to feed me shit and tell me it's chocolate, proverbially speaking.

     sadly, the information from divorcee's seems much more reliable, even though their bdsm activity had absolutely nothing to do with the failure of their marriage.  (if You are married and reading this, i am not singling You out as a liar).

     yes, i am a masochist.  yes, i like being humiliated by Women, and i believe that Women have an innate power over men.  i would like to have a Woman in control of my daily life, but i'll need to reserve my total submission to a Woman who is capable of compassion...  One who will be able to sense when i've gone too far, and won't abandon me when i regain my sanity.

"this is a dark ride"
4/23/2006 9:50:46 PM
i've been told i look fat in the pic.  i'm going to have to change it sometime.  i'm 6'0" and 180 lbs.  not fat.  i have a somewhat athletic build.  send me a message and ask me what sport i participated in. 
4/9/2006 12:18:57 AM
the picture of my back is for my privacy.  contact me and i'll send pix of my face.  i am not peeing in the picture!  i'm just standing in a puddle.  it had just started snowing. 
slavedelilah
 
 Age: 26
  Maine