Married submissive seeking Dominant male or female I am happily married, not seeking a new relationship or partner, wife is a switch, not interested in more, she knows of this and actually is encouraging me to get my needs met. Looking for a Dominant/disciplanarian... not a sadist! Hard pain along with the dangerous things (fire, needles, breath play) are all hard limits. i border on the sissy fence, no interest in sex with men, of course touching and being felt up, disciplined is fine! :) i prefer woman or couples, but a guy is fine, just understand the limitations please. i live in the gettysburg area, so someone close and sane would be great!