Basically, I'm looking for a good spanking. I've always been a masochist, and I have a fair bit of experience with other kinds of kink or bDsm play --- but that's not what I'm looking for *here*. I seem to be more into spanking, at the moment, than my partners are. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who might like to meet up at an OTK party at Paddles. I'm open to the possiblity of being social before or afterward, but I also enjoy the fantasy of someone who just tells me when and where to be, chastises me, beats my ass, and sends me home with my face streaked with tears.

You knew there had to be a catch. I'm hard to make plans with. I do not have a lot of free time. But this is a fantasy of mine, and I do try to make as many of my fantasies come true as possible. I have a very full life, including several partners and other commitments. I am married, but I'm not cheating, and I don't want to help anyone else cheat. My husband, my other partners and I are polyamorous, and pretty healthy about it.

For those concerned about body size issues, yeah, I'm a bit heavy, but for my weight I have a pretty small butt. My partners tend to be happy with it. (The weight is on my belly, and yes, big tits.)

I might also be interested in online spanking banter.