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Paragonnia

Hetero Male Dominant
Austin, Texas

Age: 33
Height: 5'10"
Weight: 150 lbs
Ethnicity: Asian

Joined: 4/30/15

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I've always known what I am, even before I had a word for it.

Before I even knew what sex was, I was bumping barbie's face into skeletor's pelvic bump bump because I liked the funny feeling it gave me in the pit of my stomach. I instinctively knew I'd catch hell from my parents if they ever saw me doing it, and thankfully they never did.

Good thing, too. I can't imagine what I'd have thought if it was me in their shoes and I found my 4 year old doing that to his little sister's barbie. 

I'm 35 now, Kink is a large part of my self identity, but it's not the biggest part of my self identity.

When I was really young, my Grandpa once sat me down and dropped a giant leatherbound book in front of me.

"Jay, you're the 26th descendent of the Sunju Lee line, you're a third generation firstborn son. When I die, and your father dies, it'll be on you to protect the family. It'll be your job to be the tree that can provide shade for everyone. Grow big, and strong, be the tree that your family can lean on."

Those words stuck with me all those years, and shaped me into being the person I ended up being in adulthood. I own my own business, because I hate the idea of someone else having power over me in any way, I provide for my parents, and my employees are my extended family, and they all know I would go to any lengths to protect and provide for them if needed be.

I almost always have a smile on my face. Enough so that my way of disguising myself on dating sites is to not put up pictures of myself smiling cause I noticed some folks have a harder time recognizing me without one. :P

I always joke around and act like a kid partly because it helps lighten the weight I feel being responsible for the well being of many. But it's a burden I take on willingly, happily. Because it gives me purpose, and a reason to exist.

At the core of my being, I identify as a protector and a provider. Being a dom is secondary to that need.

What else would you like to know?


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