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3/26/24 at 5:04 AM:

There seems to have been big changes  at this site;  this sissy  cannot find  it's potential Master...hope to find him or he finds me...jf1  was part of his name...miss  him a LOT...

 

francis


3/26/24 at 4:42 AM:

My new Message indicator just stays on.  What a pain. 


3/26/24 at 1:38 AM:

If You like making kinky homevideos, making use of me as submissive or slave for Women or gangbang scenes, humiliating and embarrasing me, turns me on quite a bit, even more so if it is made in a context where it is understood that unless I am submitting as You want me to, the films may be be made available online in embarrasing ways. Forced compliance turns me on, particularly where the process gradually sinks me deeper into Your powers. Both whipping and caning as central elements both in breaking me and training me.


3/26/24 at 1:24 AM:

Hopefully You are a Lady who want a slave to grow old with, and bring into into a relationship where we kind of grow together in a symbiotic way; both respect, love and fullfillment. You as the satisfied and proud owner of a male that fullfills your expectations anticipating your wishes, and me being confirmed and lead furter into my vocation to be of service and pleasure. I want to settle down feeling I am no more alone and useless. Move closer to You if that is needed. I admit that I am lonely and very much want to feel a growing symbiosis serving Women who like submissive me. Very OK if you are older and more mature than me, I don't dream of a extrovert kink-driven life, just quiet firm control, me giving respect and pleasure to a Woman who makes decisions for us and me.

I have ticked off some kinks and likings, but that is NOT in any way to be understood as a wishlist, it is just to indicate what I am prepared to enter into. I have had a vasectomy so no need to to use contraception if you want good old fucking, but my dick isn't huge I must admit, still I perform and can go on for long - particularly when alternating with my mouth and tongue.

Your wearing kink and Power dressing is not important to me - that You want control, role reversal and ownership is.  A vanilla-like relationship, even without kink, will fullfill me very much as long as I feel your leadership and control. Hopefully this demonstrates how I leave it to You to have it Your way.

You have a dream of a vanilla-like relationship with complimentary D/s intertwined to create a fun exciting life together, with Your D power always active in our minds.  As a male who is very comfortable for my Female companion to have the final say in ALL aspects of our lives, and welcoming invasive control and restrictions to keep me on the narrow path of serving only You.

The two main fetish kink-elements driving me are first serving in a FLR, and second, being consensually exposed to mind manipulation developing and cementing my submissive personality.

The Woman seeking a male like me may like to work on and play with my vulnerability, snake Her way into male mind,s reinforcing Her power as a way to make Your male mentally dependent on You.
That way You can also teach me to love, admire and respect You and give me fullfillment when I see and feel Your satisfaction in Your ownership and what You have turned me into. In a D/s relationship there should not be equality, and that the Womans ownership over her male and in Her household, should be for real and not play. Combining love, respect and submission is feasible.
Such role reversal may be an unrealistic wish but I do believe it to be attainable.

As for frame in a possible relationship I am open to work in a Female Led Household as nothing more than your domestic, to be married, or any kind of arrangement that suits You, evenings, weekends or 24-7, including working as domestic servant in a bi-lesbian household, chaste or cuckold. My understanding of work is that it is to be for real, not playing, but real usefullness and the main purpose for employing me. This has a strong erotic element for me, but if I am to serv Your erotic pleasures too that is for you to decide.


3/25/24 at 9:17 PM:

Please do not lie to me!  If you lie you may get away with it for a short while but you will doom the relationship to fail in the long run.

If you and I get to the point where I accept you into my service you will give all contact information like your real name, address, and phone number and we will communicate by phone and sometimes on video and we will work toward getting on a plane for real life visits.  If you can not do this, or if you dont want to do this, then do not write me and tell me that you want to serve.  I am tired of people telling me that they want to sweep my floor but they don't feel comfortable telling me their name!  Get real.

I will train you in how to think and how to serve.  Training your thinking is detailed and involves defining words so that you and I mean the same thing when we speak.  It does not start out sexual at all.  It will be like school.  You will take notes and be tested.  But before we start that process you will provide the same kind of identifying information you would need to provide to a school about who you are.  It is not the first thing I ask, but I will ask for it eventually so don't start out telling lies.

I can accept MANY things about you from your past.  When I say that I accept them it means that I accept that you have these things in your past.  It does not mean that you will be able to continue those things.  If you have made mistakes you can tell me, and we will decide how you should proceed from this point.  If you can be submitted and committed, then you can succeed.  If you want to say how things should be or how they will progess then you will fail.

Do you still want to serve?

If you do want to serve be sure to show me that you have read this journal article by summarizing this article, and any other journal articles, and summarizing my profile in your own words in your first letter to me.  This will show me that you have read my full profile and journal and it gives you an opportunity to tell me the things you like best (or worst) about what you have read.  If you write me with just a one liner or even a short paragraph I will know that you have NOT read my entire journal and profile.  And that you would rather disrespect me by writing before even investigating what I have written. 

I will return all letters from those who make this sincere effort.

Miss Michelle


3/25/24 at 7:56 PM:

Hi I'm alive again, years been rough and lost alot. But that's life I guess.

Oneeeee small thing, I've noticed a lot of my former convos always tended to try to inch me towards feminization, or cross dressing

While I'm not opposed to the idea. You're gonna have to be reaaaaal Dominant if you're fishing to make me your girlfriend or feminine play thing.


3/25/24 at 6:24 PM:

Looking for hypnotist to help me explore my kinks and fantasies 


3/25/24 at 6:24 PM:

Stop looking for women to do some specific sex act to you. Women in general prefer to have sex with their lovers. Not some random guy who just wants to experience pegging.

Want to get pegged? Socialize and be active in kink communities, make friends of all kinds, network, until you find a woman you like who likes you back and enjoys pegging her lover, and grow a relationship that includes sex and pegging.

Or find a reputable pro who provides pegging as a service and pay her.


3/25/24 at 5:57 PM:

Don't give me excuses about what my profile says when willing to relocate and traveling are indicated. 


3/25/24 at 3:39 PM:

I like spicy shrimp burritos, Chile relleno, nachos pollo. Hamburger and fries. Chef salad With thousand island dressing.

.Bacon lettuce tomato. meatball sub With provolone cheese, banana peppers ,spicy aioli, jalapeno peppers, lettuce, tomato. And a little mustard. Perfect meatball sub mmm


3/25/24 at 2:41 PM:

Any females or couples interested? 


3/25/24 at 1:05 PM:

I just realized that I am giving my dog all of the things I want... Unlimited hugs, kisses, snuggles. Tell her she's a good girl. Speak softly and sweetly. Calm her nerves. Provide attention. Teach her. Offer comfort and stability. Try to maintain her schedule. Put effort into making a better life for her. Holy fucking schniekies. 


3/25/24 at 1:04 PM:

I didn't know there was such a thing as a praise kink until maybe a year ago. I just knew that there are certain words and phrases that I want to hear more than just about anything. I wasn't hearing about it or seeing it anywhere. I felt it. What I see all the time are words like slut, whore, and bitch. Very much a your kink is not my kink and that's okay situation. If I'm honest, it repulses me to be called a whore in any capacity. A good little whore? No, thank you. But that's all I would see, besides the occasional good girl. Granted, I'm no Magellan, but I read. That simple good girl has been the carrot dangling for so damn long. 

There's a very specific empty spot in my brain reserved for something wonderful that opens with good girl. I didn't even know there was more. I'd walk through fire for that. 


3/25/24 at 11:46 AM:

I've noticed when I've chatting with m/f couples and I ask about STI tests, they almost inevitably say they haven't been tested, but they're "clean."  First of all, that's bullshit. During one of my risk-taking periods I was due for an STI test, so I decided to do some (safer) sex activities with one of these couples anyway, and realized that one of these "clean" people had a fragment of dirty toilet paper clinging to the bum.  Which is kinda "dirty" and not in the fun way.  

Is someone with the flu "dirty?"  That's weird phrasing, no?   I don't view people with STIs as "dirty" and I find the term "clean" offputting and ignorant. It is always an indication that someone doesn't know their own STI status, so it's especially ignorant.

I have had sex with people with HSV and with HIV both, but it's important to me that someone I have sex with knows that and is on medication for it.  I have the right to take measured risks with my body, and I want to know when I'm doing that. 

Personally, I get tested very regularly when I'm having sex, and I get tested for everything, INCLUDING herpes simplex, because it's a way bigger deal then people think it is.  It can infect your eyes and make you go blind, it can infect your guts and do terrible things there, and if you're super-unlucky it can get into your spine.  For people with suppressed immune systems (which I have--drugs for autoimmune arthritis), it can be horrifically painful.

Having an STI doesn't make someone dirty, but claiming to be "clean" and/or not knowing or disclosing your status does make you an asshole.  It's amazing how people assume if they don't have symptoms they can't be infected, which isn't true at all.  When I first moved to this town, I heard chlamydia had recently run through a handful of people in the bdsm community, precisely because of these bizarre and outdated notions.  I miss the bdsm community of 30 years ago, when it was more educated, small, and closeknit, and assholes were rapidly booted out of the public scene.

Sidenote:  I'd love to be on PREP, but I currently have some gut-related issues which mean I can't tolerate it.  Therefore when I do have sex with someone who's positive, they need to be currently undetectable and the sex needs to be protected.  Once I'm in a state where I can take PREP, the protected part of that equation isn't important.


3/25/24 at 11:41 AM:

God help our country if the trump hating idiots re elect Creepy Pedophile Joe. 


3/25/24 at 11:24 AM:

A pansexual guy said to me this week that he wants to start a tiktok standup routine and one of the things he'd like to say is that as a "bi guy" he wants to tell "straight women" that they have to "learn how to be interesting" because he can "get dick anywhere."  

As a guy who has straight female friends who are hella interesting and good partners in their relationships, I find this wildly offensive and a trash attitude.

Also, dude, your dick isn't magical.  Do you REALLY think any mentally healthy woman, bi or straight, would want to be in relationship with a guy with that kind of attitude?  You're going to hook dumb women, women with poor self esteem, and women who feel desperate, or women who move so fast that they don't realize at first that your politically correct veneer is just that.  A veneer. 

Good luck with that.

I've been toying with the idea of just not fucking pan or bi guys for a long time, because I've never met one who was single who didn't eventually say something that made me go cold.  I don't need to get along with someone to hook up with them, but some things are a hard no, and misogyny and queerbashing (shocking I've met up with pansexual-identified guys who did that) are hard nos.  It makes my blood curdle and really makes me reconsider casual sex, which sucks so hard.

I feel so bad for straight women because it just seems like an awful time.  How do you stand it, when the field is composed of guys who really don't like women?  From what I've seen they eventually just attach themselves to someone and pretend their guy doesn't do the thing that in some cases I've literally seen him do.  Desperation is a helluva drug.  Oh well.  I'm a fag--I like gay men and I still like masculine women.  Not my circus, not my monkeys. Thank god.

Sidenote:  if you're one of the astoundingly few pan or bi guys who actually doesn't have a trash attitude about women and this post upsets you, why don't you start calling out the guys who ruin it for you and telling them they can be better people.  Tell them to stop ruining for the rest of you.

 


3/25/24 at 10:28 AM:

Slimming down my message inquries.


3/25/24 at 10:19 AM:

The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

 

It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

 

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon.

 

I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.

 

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

 

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human.

 

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true

 

I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.

 

If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

 

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

 

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, ‘Yes.’

 

It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.

 

I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

 

It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here.

I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

 

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.

I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

 

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

 

by Oriah Mountain Dreamer


3/25/24 at 9:44 AM:

you have spoken to me cleanly I need a new Master/Dom I guess I would have been nice just to tell me I wasn't what you want I get it and now it's time to move along it's was nice knowing you and sessioning With you I'm not holding any kind of grudge against you i had true feeling for you it's just to bad you didn't feel any thing for me but just a Release


3/25/24 at 7:52 AM:

Just heard about the crew club and am interested in finding someone that would like to take me there as their oral bottom.


3/25/24 at 7:31 AM:

I am shifting the focus of my search.  


I am no longer looking for masculine submissives.  I have found someone and am very happy with him.


I am, however, still looking for a feminine submissive.  Specifically, I want a girl, aged between 25-45, I can be Mommy to.  In public we'll hang out, have fun, go shopping, and do girl stuff.  In private, I want a "little" who enjoys being around 5 or so.  I'll give her baths, play with her, cuddle her, read bedtime stories to her, but also have a sexual relationship with her.  She must be potty trained.  I don't do ABDL or anything to do with diapers.


To be absolutely clear, if you are a crossdresser, transvestite, or "sissy" you are NOT what I'm looking for.  I want a cisgender woman, transgender woman, or femme leaning non-binary person.  If you just play at being a woman, I'm not interested.  




3/25/24 at 7:15 AM:

In vanilla terms I seek a single guy, lifestyle submissive, with FiVE years experience in a FLR whilst going out to pubs (munches) and clubs (FemDom fetish clubs) to go out with me in his car that he drives, three times a month, sometimes a little more. Long-term to first go for dinner, drinks and socialise.  When the rapor is there I will give S&m play on his body in a fetish club. (I don't play at home.)

I call it the opposite theory. 

When I was freshly divorced a few years back and made it clear I only wanted light-hearted fun, guys got upset because I declined a long-term relationship with them. After 20 years of marriage I was allergic to commitment. 


As a Poly Dominant Woman, now looking for a single, live-out second guy.( I think seeing a guy a few times a month long-term can be seen as a relationship. Well I do anyway.) Unfortunately no guy who approaches is seeking long-term and I don't play on the first EiGHT meets. Though I like younger guys I am also aware they are not looking for commitment so won't be suitable for what I seek.



 


3/25/24 at 6:30 AM:

Men don't REALLY understand how women act when they're sick .   For a woman?  It's like "business as usual".   For a man?  It's like he's dying.  Even if it's just a cold!


3/25/24 at 5:50 AM:

Starting an interesting time to lock myself with a cage that has remote functions. Could be interesting...


3/25/24 at 3:13 AM:

interests:

  • daily bondage and tied up or bondage at night.
  • shaibari training sessions 
  • feminization training
  • ltr tpe but working up to it with real training
  • whipping but it scares me even though I wanna reach sub space
  • intimate fucking me anal while I am held and touched and loved by my owner.

have a deep intimacy with my owner and build to 100 percent trust

i just see how doms can protect and control and actually make me theirs., that feeling is what I dream about.

I like greyhound from bondage life. And house of gord. I like pony play porn but only done some high kicks by myself that's about it.


3/25/24 at 2:37 AM:

hello, it's me your little. I need to be in little space. I've been up now, a full 24 hours. I hope I'm not grumpy today because that would make my future Daddy/mommy sad. I don't know why I can't sleep I'm wired from ADHD. Its horrible sometimes. Adderall we all have our own demons and issues. What is normal?? Who is normal?? My theory: only God knows. I'm glad I can be honest on how I feel here and be myself and not be judged. This is it for now. With love - your princess2250


3/25/24 at 1:46 AM:

Observe to learn. 

Think to understand. 

Move and apply to accomplish. 


3/25/24 at 1:00 AM:

Hi!!!! I really need a Daddy Dom in my life. One who's trustworthy, honest, and loving and caring in return he would get to explore my submissive side with me. He would have my heart and soul. It would be 24/7 he would have control in and out of the bedroom if you're what I'm looking for what's holding you back?? Message me!! - you're future baby girl princess2250


3/24/24 at 8:54 PM:

Worker Bee is what you are to Me.  

Day in day out, displaying appreciation and self sacrifice for a blessed life.

 


3/24/24 at 8:11 PM:

I will search for you in vessels until we meet again. 

Impart your wisdom through them. 

I'll find my comfort through them from you.

Thank you in advance Lucifer.


3/24/24 at 6:55 PM:

Traditional in some ways, modern in others, and against the grain at times.  Like to see who I'm talking with and determine if there is a physical as well as of course a mental connection.   I live in South East Asia, life is good here.  Warm weather, friendly people, good food.   I'm not looking to move.  Happy to host you to see if we get along and perhaps develop into something long term.  

 


3/24/24 at 6:24 PM:

ALL THAT EVIL NEEDS IS FOR A GOOD MAN TO DO NOTHING. 


3/24/24 at 5:30 PM:

 

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Primal (Hunter)
97% Dominant
91% Owner
79% Degrader
64% Master/Mistress
58% Experimentalist
51% Voyeur
50% Exhibitionist
43% Daddy/Mommy
39% Boy/Girl
36% Brat tamer
24% Ageplayer
15% Non-monogamist
3% Vanilla
2% Brat
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch
bdsmtest.org/r/n67s8rWt


3/24/24 at 5:20 PM:

New to this site and looking to found someone to start in this lifestyle!


3/24/24 at 4:30 PM:

If you can't be bothered to send what I ask for within my profile if you want consideration, then we are not looking for the same things.  Save time and move on to the next profile.



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