You're dominant, I'm submissive. Bear in mind I said submissive, not slave. I have no intention of serving anyone, of being kept in a cage, or being led around on a lead - if that's what you're seeking, look elsewhere, or buy yourself a dog.

I won't be interested in you if you call yourself 'Master', if you get off on all that upper case/lower case stuff, good for you, but I find it affected and silly.

If your wife doesn't understand you; pay an interpreter.

I don't do casual play. I know the D/s dynamic works best within a relationship and it's a relationship I'm looking for.

Ideally I'm looking for a man who's at least 5'10"; I don't like looking down on my man. Preferably aged between 45 and 53, I don't mind moving the higher limit, if you don't look like my father. Preferably local.

I prefer to combine my BDSM with normal life, it runs through the relationship, as gold thread runs through the fabric of a scarf. The dynamic will be constant, whether we're actively engaged, or wandering around window shopping, or eating dinner in a restaurant, it's natural for me and I would hope it will be for you too.