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	As you all are probably aware, there are many different types of submissives out there; I am entirely un-like about 99% of the people you will find on here. I have a very distinct personality; my own life, and my own ideas about leading a kinky life in general and how those kinky aspects complement my real life. It is very likely I am NOT going to be the type of sub that is going to appeal to most people (like 99%) on here. For the other 1% this profile is geared towards you; so please read on. For starters, I'm not just fucking around or looking to get into anyone's pants here; I'm seeking out like-minded people hoping to meet persons of exceptional caliber to help broaden my horizons. I'm not interested in cybering, cam or anything that isn't the real deal. I have a profile and email to advertise and make the initial connections; beyond that I'm looking to make a real connection. Experience-wise; I have subbed before. It was a very long time ago. I jumped in over my head and actually paid a Domme for her time/services and was sorely disappointed, even though it seemed like a pretty good idea at the time. As a result, I am more cautious about whom I approach now, and I won't be paying for the services of any "pro-dommes" anytime soon. At this point I don't really give a rat's ass if you are legit or not. As with everything else, the idiots have fucked things for those of you who may actually know what you are doing. Rant aside; I don't have that kind of money to be throwing around for shit like this anymore anyway. Situations change and things only tend to get harder... not easier. That being said I'm also not a cheapskate either though... You don't have to tell me that implements or consumables ain't cheap, so I don't mind helping out with those sorts of incurred costs (supplies/consumables etc.) within reason. Just keep in mind that I'm certainly not loaded, nor do I have a money tree growing in my back yard.... shit, I'm renting; the damned yard ain't even my own anymore. I am pretty open minded though, and I have a twisted masochistic streak. My hide is thick, and as far as kinks go, you might be surprised with what I'd be willing to subject myself to for the right person. I have several interests and very few hard-limits. Feel free to ask me about them... that's always a good conversation starter, and there's bound to be something that is liable to peak your interest. Out in public, (the vanilla world) for the most part I am quite rebellious to the point where I can be downright intimidating with the way I dress and act. (Used to be a Biker... tough as nails) Just keep in mind that even though I don't always outwardly express this side of me, I DO have a soft spot for the women in my life, and this is especially true when it come to kink. You might very well come to be "the ol' ball and chain," but damn-it, call it chivalry or whatever the hell you want; I would fight to the death for the women in my life that I care about. I know how to treat a woman right; both publicly and privately. It is going to take an extremely strong/exceptional woman to earn that spot/kind of privilege however; and this is something that can't simply be taken for granted or freely given away. Alone, I'm generally a lot shyer and far more openly submissive in private. I'm looking for a very specific type of Domme (or Switch) as I am also quite capable of swinging a paddle as well as being the target practice. So feel free to email or inquire; as I probably won't be actively emailing much unless I find someone I am particularly interested in. I am not the type to be submissive with just anyone; and keep in mind if you do ever manage corner me, you are still going to have a REAL MAN on your hands. You've been forewarned so be prepared for that.

4/21/2011 5:58:58 PM

Am I going about this the wrong way or something? I mean, maybe I should be listing myself as a dominant instead of submissive here.

Here is my train of thought... I've been having a look at other profiles; the sort of arrangement I had in mind (or generally what I am looking for) is almost akin to the Dom with the female submissive that is his most cherished posession. Except that I'm not looking for some doormat with no ambition or a mind of their own that wants to be micro-managed.

I want a REAL woman damn-it! Someone to keep me honest or in check, and who isn't about to let me walk all over her or put up with my BS just because I can be imtimidating or claim to be a dominant.

And I'm certainly not looking for some busty eye-candy princess or something either. -Not that I wouldn't be all-for meeting an absolutely gorgeous/attractive women either. But c'mon... at least have some confidence and self-respect. Otherwise how's a guy supposed to take you seriously.

Earned priveledge... that about sums it up I think.

3/28/2011 12:17:25 PM

I should also point out that if you haven't figured it out by now, I'm no sissy boy either; I'm stubborn, even bull-headed at times and ALL man. -I act as such. I'm sure you could probably find plenty of wuss's on here if that's the sort of thing that you really want in a man; In my opininon that's pretty sad, but I'm not one of them.

3/28/2011 12:16:25 PM

It seems like some people have no concept of the value of a dollar these days. I find it pretty amusing to see all these damned Barbie princess's out there trolling, and looking for that free ride. I don't really give a shit if you DO feel differently, but here's a newsflash... life is hard all around and it ain't getting any easier. The 1950's single income days are long since over. -I work hard, I pay my bills and I scratch a living as best I can. However insignificant that may be or might seem to YOU; if you can't do the same without having things handed to you with your silver spoon, then I see that as being inferior to me.

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MissElsie

Age: 30

Portland, Oregon