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I understand that there are many that use bdsm is a way to get laid and others that simply wish to live out a fantasy that takes them away from their otherwise trapped lives. I am neither. I realize that not all bdsm relationships make it to the depth that I seek and I understand that my ideas on the subject may be different from many others. They are my thoughts and ideas that I follow as I forge a path through life and I would only want someone to follow me that is comfortable with them. While I am happy to discuss bdsm topics with anyone and flirt with women that attract me, we're all human and its only natural to feel one another out. But the woman that I ultimately seek for the long term IS a natural submissive. Meaning she feels most comfortable when serving and her greatest happiness is derived from pleasing the man she cares for with her service. I do not believe that a submissive/slave woman should be either stupid or weak. Intelligence stimulates the mind, makes for better conversation, and intelligent people tend to be more creative which is a must for me in terms of the wonders of sexuality and bdsm activities. It is a strong woman not a weak one that can take pain or humiliation for her lover with a smile on her face. It takes endurance to build up pain thresholds and a strong constitution to handle breaking down old thought processes to fully accept one's role in submission. I have enjoyed various kinky activities since I was a teen and since have had a few long relationships that centered around the dominant submissive aspects of bdsm. I believe even the Master is always learning something new and it is important to listen to the student as well. I have greatly enjoyed training both the body and mind of women into a deeper understanding of their roles in these relationships, their ability to break down old walls of societal stereotypes and old hardwired misinformation about who they should be, how to follow correctly and safely with respect and a true feeling of purpose.