NO MEN PLEASE. I'm a curvy bi sub looking for a Mistress to teach me how to serve women. I'm married to a wonderful man who is a mostly dom switch, and although we're not lifestylers as such, we've been into D/s play in the bedroom for many years. He is happy for me to play alone.

I'm a proud geek who works in IT, loves sci-fi/fantasy and computer games, and studies maths for fun.

I am very shy, especially at first, so I want someone who can be a friend as well as a playmate. It takes time for someone to earn my trust enough that I will submit to them, so please don't expect that to happen straight away! I'd like something long term, not a one night fling.

I am clean, intelligent and honest, and expect the same. Happy to provide photos. I prefer to get to know you a little via email/msn before meeting.