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I have played around with both dominance and submission in the past and had a lot of fun, but I have realized that what excites me the most lies firmly towards the submissive end of the spectrum. Like other masochistic subs, Ive found the right kind of pain in the right areas at the right time can be extremely erotic. I dont have a high pain tolerance--in fact, I am unusually sensitive for a guy in some areas Id love to be involved with someone who found that exciting.
Moving away from physical and more towards the emotional, I have a thing for strong, intelligent women. Strong! I like a woman in charge, who dominates, knows what she wants, and takes it--especially when it comes to me. Thats not to say I dont have agency or opinions or desires. I dont like woo ( pseudoscience, particularly related to health and wellness) , ignorance, or those who are quick to judge. I think kindness and gentleness can be yet more evidence of strength. I dont like being controlled by strangers or humiliated in public (not that thats bad, just not my thing). In many aspects of my life, especially professional, I naturally take charge, so I wouldnt say I have a generally submissive personality. My view of the domsub dynamic involves more intimacy and trust. I give control to you because youve earned it by being the badass but loving domme you are. Vulnerability appreciated and nurtured, your will imposed but my needs considered, a velvet glove over an iron fist--thats hot!
What else... well Ive grown to love cooking over the past couple years. I like video games and board-games. I love science, politics, and philosophy. I keep up with current events. Im neither religious nor spiritual in any sense of the term. Im not a fan of arrogance, and if Im ever guilty of it feel free to call me out Ill be better for it in the end ). I like people who are talented but who use that talent to help others. Im starting to see working out as a kind of masochistic, mildly erotic experience. If thats your fetish, holy shit email me haha.
Oh! And, I love to read so much-- random things. Right now Im reading The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet, The Personal MBA, and She Comes First.
(P.S. Im not interested in online play or FinDom, so if you live far away from Madison, WI theres likely no point in messaging me. I apologize for not having a picture Im a real person, willing to meet anyone interesting for coffee on me to make up for it )
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