Collarspace.com

Hi, I don't really know exactly what I am looking for here, a little education and exploration mainly. I have little to no experience in the BDSM world... but it strikes my curiosity pretty hard. I haven't explored enough to establish myself as a dom/sub. For reference, when engaged in actual sexual activity I tend to be Dom but when I am alone, masturbating, I am almost always sub in my mind. I travel a lot so I am looking to meet people in the towns I travel to. I listed myself as bi-sexual because I have had a few experiences with men and genuinely enjoyed them. It doesn't mean I am a cockslut who jumps on the first dick that points my way...you have to be a stand out guy to get me on that side of the plate, and I don't disappoint when I'm there :) As far as women go, I prefer the ones who are SMART, a big brain is a big turn on, if you are Dom, be a smart Dom... not some bimbo looking to make a fast $50 using the whip you bought the other day... I have no interest in the concept of "Financial sub" It is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard... I know this all seems a bit contradictory, but that's why I am here, I want to get a full established view of where I stand. I am totally up for just nice conversation about the subject from anyone, anywhere, I don't need an hour in your dungeon... Anything is game... Thanks for your time.
sageharmony
 
 Age: 28
 New York City, New York