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I'm looking for someone specific. I do not know their name, or what they look like. But I know what they are like. Someone intelligent, fun, understanding, open minded, and honest. I am a switch meaning I can do both roles, but only when the mood strikes me, not when you demand it. I'm sweet with a firm hand. If you want to know more or looking for something out of the ordinary, even for this site, drop me a line. but make sure to mind your manners. I do not lie it creates far too many problems, ask me anything and i will give you an honest answer.
I move slow and deliberately I will not be rushed or pushed into anything I do not want to do. I lean more towards being a Domme than a sub but since occasionally just in the bedroom i submit thats why i put switch on my profile. I am used to being treated like a lady and with respect, so far the lil boys who have messaged me have shown very little of that.
I will only talk to single men, who are under 46. I can prove Im a female when I'm ready. I am a bbw i won't lie or deny it. I am comfortable in my skin and still sexy with all the curves in the right places.
5/9/2014 11:43:29 PM

Gotta love how most are just posers on here, they say they want to meet or play then never follow threw. How hard is it to be honest and actually do what you want.  Personally i find it harder not do to what i want. 

4/20/2014 5:46:21 PM

So after a conversation with my roommate, im thinkin i need to rename myself Uniquewah, yes i know its spelled wrong. but it suits me and how different i am

1/31/2014 12:04:44 AM

Off on a tangent sorry.

 

Screw the bullshit, Screw the games. I am who i am, i dont live in the closet like alot of people, i smile thru the pain and bullshit. i live loud and proud. i can be quiet and respectful when its called for, and i like my quiet but when i want i say exactly what i want and do what i want. 

 

I do want a knight in armor, but i dont want it shiny or white. I dont want him to fix all the problems but  at least try to help or just be there. And id do the same for him. i want someone for the fun stuff and the quiet days. i know im odd, off, strange, unique, weird, quirky, and any other numerous way to say it. but those who truly  know me love me because i am honest and true. 

just wish i could find that click. 

1/5/2014 3:19:23 PM

I would normally say new year,  new outlook, but not this year. I start off this new year with courage and strength for what life will throw knowing that last year was hell. This year i will laugh and smile more. Who wants to help me smile more? 

10/3/2013 1:36:02 AM

need to find a computer expert who's better than me. will trade good home cooked meal or something else possibly. this is a temporary offer

UPDATE: I did fix my computer on my own, for those who answered only one person knew more than me, most the answers i got were what google said and i had already done. i guess i should put computer expert on my profile if thats what counts for experts. 

4/20/2013 6:10:45 PM

How many know what a proper first date is? Apparently noone. If you don't know what it is don't bother messaging me. I'm a woman on the rise if you aren't ready for someone doing good things and movin up then get the fuck out of my way and don't waste my damn time!!

SlavinSiri
 
 Age: 52
 Yorktown, Virginia