If you are not who you are then who are you?  Are you going to pretend you are you or you are one of them.  Can't have it both ways.  You can be who you are and still get along with them.  As a matter of fact they will like you better for being true to yourself. If you pretend to be who you are everybody will see right through you.

I just talked to some one who said they wanted to live the life but it would be hard to make the change.  To paraphrase Tom Hanks in the movie A  League of Their Own.  It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard everyone would do it.  Its the hard that makes it great.   Who ever said life was easy? I busted my ass and broke my back to get to where I am today and I'm pretty satisfied with my life.  Owning a slave would make me happy and cap it off.  So while you're sitting at the screen and getting your jollies or wondering why you can't find the right person, think about how hard you're working at it.

I always say Please and Thank you becuase thats the way my mother raised me.  

I beleive all woman are submissive.  I beleive they are confused by mixed messages from family, friends and media.  I believe they have doubts about who they and and fears about getting it wrong.  I believe it is my role as a Dom to remove those doubts and fears and clear away the confusion.  Its been said many times, slavery will set you free.  With training a woman can hold her head up high knowng that her master has trained her in appearence, behavoir and thinking in such a way that she can be confident that she is pleasing to him.

Its hard to imagine all the effort someone would go through just to gaslight a stranger but it happens.  Good thing I don't care.