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Pan Male Submissive, 39,  New York
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slavejim12010

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Hello, i am a 38 year old male submissive currently looking to explore my submissive side with a Dominant Female or Male.
Thank You for viewing my profile.

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 slavejim12010

 Submissive Male

 New York

 39

 Pan

 Caucasian

 01/31/17

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Women

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples

Friends

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to worship your feet (Expert)

 Being humiliated by you

 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Loves:

 Coffee Shops

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to worship your body

 You disciplining me with a cane

 You giving me corner time

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Being allowed to be your servant (Expert)

 Being allowed to do all of the housework (Expert)

 Being allowed to be obedient to you (Beginner)

 You binding me with plastic wrap

 Sensory Play (Beginner)

 You cuckolding me (Beginner)

 Likes:

 Volunteerism

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 You punishing my gentials

 You putting me on a leash

 Sensation Play

 Curious About:

 Cages

 Chastity

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Gas Masks

 Hates:

 Bar Hopping

 Modern Primitivism

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Journal Entries:
7/29/2017 8:42:50 PM
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
⦁ Yes, No or N/A – For each item to indicate if you have ever done the activity, not done the activity or if it does not apply to your gender.
⦁ 0 – 5, or No – Next indicate how you feel about the activity using the rating scale provided below. A ‘No’ means that will not do the activity under any circumstances (a hard limit)
0. Indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1. Means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2. Means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3. Means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4. Means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5. Means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
NOTE: Place an asterisk (*) next to those items you are only willing to do with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
NOTE: The list is by no means 100% inclusive, so add any additional information which might be important for your Dom to know.
WARNING: If you have any medical conditions that might limit your ability to play let your Dom know! Dom’s are not mind readers and if you don’t tell them about an existing condition, they won’t know. This places both of you in a dangerous situation, so be honest!
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Activity Experience
(Yes, No, or N/A) Willingness
(0 – 5 or No)
Abrasion -0
Age play -2
Anal sex -3
Anal plugs (small) -4
Anal plugs (large) -2
Anal plug (public, under clothes) -4
Animal roles -no 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 0
Asphyxiation -0
Auctioned for charity -4
Bathroom use control -5
Beastiality -no 0
Beating (soft) -2
Beating (hard) -0
Blindfolds -5
Being serviced (sexual) -2
Being bitten -2
Breast/chest bondage -3
Breathe control -2
Branding -0
Boot worship -6 :)
Bondage (light) -5
Bondage (heavy) -4
Bondage (multi-day) -1
Bondage (public, under clothing) -5
Breast whipping -4
Brown showers (scat) 0
Cages (locked inside of) -5
Caning -5
Catheterization -no 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) -5
Chastity belts -4
Chauffeuring -5
Choking -1
Clothespins -3
Cock worship -4
Collars (worn in private) -5
Collars (worn in public) -2
Competitions (with other Subs) -3
Corsets (wearing) -3
Cross dressing -4
Cuffs (leather) -5
Cuffs (metal) -5
Cutting -no 0
Dilation -0
Double penetration -na
Electricity -0
Enemas -3
Enforced chastity -4
Examinations (physical) -2
Exercise (forced/required) -4
Exhibitionism (friends) -4
Exhibitionism (strangers) -4
Eye contact restrictions -5
Face slapping -4
Fantasy abandonment -4
Fantasy rape -0
Fantasy gang-rape -0
Fisting (anal) -2
Fisting (vaginal) -na
Following orders -5
Foot worship -10 :)
Forced dressing -3
Forced homosexuality -3
Forced masturbation -5
Forced nudity (private) -5
Forced nudity (around others) 2
Forced servitude -5
Full head hoods -4
Gags (cloth) -3
Gags (rubber) -3
Gags (tape) -3
Gates of Hell (male) -no 0
Genital sex -2
Given away to another Dom (temp) -5
Given away to another Dom (perm) -1
Golden showers -3
Hairbrush spankings -4
Hair pulling -na
Hand jobs (giving) -4
Hand jobs (receiving) -3
Harems (serving w/other subs) -0
Harnessing (leather) -4
Harnessing (rope) -4
Having food chosen for you -5
Having clothing chosen for you -5
Head (giving fellatio) -5
Head (receiving fellatio) -2
High heel worship -12 :)
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) -5
Hot oils (on genitals) -3
Hot waxing -5
Housework (doing) -4
Human puppy dog -1
Humiliation (private) -5
Humiliation (public) -4
Hypnotism -1
Ice cubes -1
Infantilism -no
Initiation rites -no
Injections -no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage -0
Interrogations -0
Kidnapping -3
Kneeling -4
Leather clothing -5
Leather restraints -5
Lectures for misbehavior -5
Licking (non-sexual) -5
Manacles & Irons -4
Manicures (giving) -3
Massage (giving) -4
Massage (receiving) -1
Medical scenes -0
Modeling for erotic photos -0
Mouth bits -0
Mummification -3
Nipple clamps -4
Nipple weights -3
Oral/anal play (rimming) -0
Over-the-knee spanking -2
Orgasm denial -4
Orgasm control -5
Outdoor scenes -5
Outdoor sex -1
Phone sex (serving Dom) -1
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) -0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) -2
Piercing (permanent) -3
Prison scenes -0
Pony slave -1
Public exposure -no
Pussy/cock whipping -3
Pussy worship -5
Riding crops -4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.) -0
Rituals -1
Religious scenes -0
Restrictive rules on behavior -5
Rubber/latex clothing -5
Rope body harness -4
Saran wrapping -4
Scratching - getting -1
Scratching - giving -0
Sensory deprivation -4
Serving -5
Serving as art -0
Serving as ashtray -1
Serving as furniture -3
Serving as a maid -5
Serving as toilet -1
Serving as waitress/waiter -1
Serving orally (sexual) -4
Serving other doms (supervised) -4
Serving other doms (unsupervised) -4
Sexual deprivation (short term) -5
Sexual deprivation (long term) -1
Shaving (body hair) -5
Shaving (head hair) -5
Sleep deprivation -no
Sleepsacks -3
Slutty clothing (private) -5
Slutty clothing (public) -1
Spanking -5
Spandex clothing -4
Speech restrictions (when, what) -5
Speculums (Anal) -0
Speculums (vaginal) -na
Spreader bars -4
Standing in corner -5
Stocks -4
Straight jackets -4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) -2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) -5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) -0
Strapping (full body beating) -3
Suspension (upright) -0
Suspension (inverted) -0
Suspension (horizontal) -0
Supplying new partners for Dom -0
Swallowing semen -1
Swallowing urine -1
Swapping (with one other couple) -1
Swinging (multiple couples) -0
Tattooing -no
Teasing -0
Tickling -1
Triple penetration -na
Uniforms -2
Including others -2
Vaginal dildo -na
Verbal humiliation -6
Vibrator on genitals -2
Voyeurism (watching others) -4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) -4
Video (watching others) -4
Video (recordings of you) -4
Water torture -1
Wearing symbolic jewelry -0
Whipping -4
Wooden paddles -5

5/14/2017 4:40:24 PM
A true submissive gives the power to his or her Domme to destroy them.....then trusts his or her Domme NOT too.

5/9/2017 7:03:10 PM
Have it email or message Master at fixed times each day e.g. 6am, 8am, 10am, 12am, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm, midnight - so it is forced to focus on You
Have it kneel for master naked on webcam (or anything else You want on webcam) or send pics naked to Master
Have it create an account on Recon, craigslist etc and give You the password so You can arrange for it to serve other Men local to it
Have it buy a chastity cage and then send it  a padlock to lock it on (and don’t send it the key).  Have it send a picture of itself in chastity each day
Have it install teamviewer on its PC and then you can install Net Nanny etc to control its access and/or monitor what it does
Have it place a webcam in its room that it always on and always availble for you to access to see what it is up to and to controle slave is naked all the time
Make it live on fixed amount of money each week either by having it show you its bank account or more extreme paying its earnings (or transferring) into an account you control and you only transfer back a fixed amount each week.  The residual could go to You or for savings for the slave maybe less a weekly tax. Master let me have 25€ a week which is low
Have it create a facebook account that You access and have it check in whenever it is so you can track it.  And, you can instruct it to be at a certain place (or places) at a certain time (or times) and check in so You can control its movements
Create a daily routine for it to follow each day - kneel each morning, exercise, walk to work, kneel at home, recite a creed, go to bed at 9pm etc for me it is waking time 5am, facing the wall till 5:30 then cold shower, then exercices (at least 1 hour) then breakfast in a bowl on the floor, then dressing up to leave the house
Have it write a slave diary to send to you each day, week or month. I have to do one really detailed
Give in instructions to respond to any text message You send it within a set time (10 mins,) and then send it massages af random times of day
Have it create a character on Second Life or an multi-player game of any kind and control it from there serving You in the game
Use a service like writeforme.org to have to complete lines/writing tasks for You and/or others i have to do at least one wfm task
Make it keep a blog e.g. on tumblr and create a certain amount of new content every day or week
Instruct it to find 3 Men locally to serve who it will then ask to report to You on its performance
Have it create a maintain a profile of a website like Recon for You for it to find slaves/faggots local to You o serve You
Have it wirte a 1000, 2000 or 5000 word essay on different aspects of service each week and post it to a blog site for others to read and critique
Make it save a certain amount each week and transfer to an account You own to pay for You to come and use it in person (or it to come to You)
Have it donate all its clothes to a charity shop and throw away all its underwear. Then have it buy second hand one (or two) of everything and this is all it can wear
Have it cancel any subions to satellite TV, net flicks, Amazon etc as these are not meant for slaves.

5/9/2017 6:38:39 PM

1. What is Teamviewer?

Teamviewer is a program that you can download on to your Mac or PC that allows another user (me) to remotely control your desktop.

2. What is teamviewer lockdown?

Teamviewer lockdown is where I take control of your computer. Typically this begins with me setting my own custom password on Teamviewer so I can log onto your machine whenever I want to. Then I go about taking admin permissions and creating my own profile on your machine. I install all kinds of software on your machine including keyloggers, screenshot captures, and a variety of other spyware that will allow me to keep tabs on you and what you are doing at all times. For many slaves I set parental controls so they can not use certain applications or visit certain websites without my express personal permission :)

Sometimes I will use Teamviewer functions like blackscreen so you can not see exactly what I'm doing or what I'm installing. Other times I will disable remote input meaning you will not be able to control your computer at all while I am accessing it.

3. What does it entail?

When I take Teamviewer control your computer becomes mine to control. I can log into your accounts, collect personal information like photographs, logins, social media information, and any other information I may want to use for CONSENSUALfantasy blackmail play. I will lock down your computer and filter your websites so you can only access what I desire you to access. Each teamviewer session is a MINIMUM $50 tribute for my time and attention. After lockdown you will be extorted more and more for whatever permissions you may want including things like answering your emails, watching porn, or visiting your favorite social media sites.

Sometimes Teamviewer sessions can include humiliation, degradation, chastity, consensual fantasy blackmail, cam-to-cam, ignore cam, or a variety of other arrangements depending on your deep dark fantasies. If you ask for TEAMVIEWER LOCKDOWN you will get exactly what I describe above. No more no less. If you specifically want humiliation, blackmail, DURING teamviewer sessions you need to ask.

4. How do you block my programs?

I use standard parental control software, web filtering software, built in software that is part of your OS (Micosoft, etc.). I reserve the right to NOT tell you all the of the tools I use so that you can't disobey me.

5. Is this permanent and ongoing slavery?

The point of lockdown is that you no longer have control over your machine. If you want a SINGLE session of teamviewer abuse that is fine, however I much prefer to drain slaves on an ongoing basis. I have had some teamviewer slaves enjoy my attention for over a year while I kept them in lockdown.

6. How do I get unlocked?

If you no longer want my ongoing attentions or you want me to remove you from lockdown entirely the buy-out is $200.00 payable via PAYPAL, Amazon Gift Card, or Gift Rocket. This buy out is to secure your freedom as well as for me to remove any software I've installed and restore admin permissions.

7. What if I decide not to pay you at all?

Then your computer is most likely fucked. I've had slaves who did not obey tell me that it cost them anywhere from $100- $300 to get their computers unlocked by professionals, and even then there were things they couldn't access or use :)

5/7/2017 10:29:46 AM
Test How Far You Dare Take Female Domination?

1. What would you prefer his status to you to be?
Submissive(1) Slave(2) Property(3)

2. You agree with chastity and controlling his penis?
No (1)Always (2) Love the idea (3)

3. You think a male should not have the right to set limits on anything you choose.
No (1)  Not after a contract is signed (2) Yes(3)

4. You love and care for your male  but you crave to humiliate him, hurt
him and enjoy making him suffer whilst he worships you.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

5.You lack the confidence or motivation to carry out your desires:
Never(1) Yes(2) Sometimes (3)

6. If sometimes your males reaction to a command was sullen or impertinent
and not humble and servile. This would anger you.
No (1) Sometimes(2)Yes(3)

7. You would like to see your males body striped with whip marks or  canes and would enjoy inflicting pain which is:
Mild (1) Severe (2) Sadistic(3)

8. Keeping your male as a human pet (Dog or Horse) with no human speech rights and living in a caged environment appeals.
No(1) Yes(2) Love the idea(3)

9. Being sexually pleasured by your male whilst him being denied all forms of sexual pleasure is a power rush and an extremely appealing scenario.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

10. You think the male should have no money of his own and you should
control all finances.
No (1) Sometimes (2) Always(3)

11 If he cries out when you cane him or whip him you feel sorry for him or you want to give him more.
Feel sorry (1) Give him more (2) Keep on until he learns to shut up (3)

12. You sometimes feel inhibited in carrying out your true desires with your male due to concern over an adverse reaction on his part so you keep it bottled up inside and this  spoils things for you.
Yes(1) No (2) Sometimes(3)

13.You love the idea of living this lifestyle 24/7 but outside elements and real
life get in the way, this:
Isn’t even an issue(1) Sometimes is an issue(2)This is a huge issue(3)

14. The slave/Sub/Property you want is a human being with feelings , for you to be in  true control can you push those feelings to  one side and go with your desires.
No (1) I’m willing to try (2) Love the idea (3)

15. Your sexual pleasure provided by the male is increased if, at the same time,
he is suffering discomfort  pain or humiliation as a result of your actions.
No (1) Sometimes (2)Love the idea(3)

16. You never want back chat or disrespect from your male again and like
the idea of stamping it out completely.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

17. Being served by a male both sexually and domestically , with you forcing him to serve you this way knowing he does now wish to and is hating it, makes the experience more erotic and pleasurable.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

18. You want to have your male  beg your permission to do things and fear
the consequences of not begging.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

19. Owning a male who through your cold harsh training regime has been left with no choice but to serve and obey you would be an adrenaline rush for you and would increase your pleasure.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

20. You would be more sexually excited if you ordered your slave to
pleasure you immediately following punishment than at some other time.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)

21. Should your slave share your bed or forever sleep caged or chained at night.
No(1) Sometimes(2) Yes(3)

Total score…………………………………..

Your score will be between 21 and 63.

If you have scored 34 or under you should seriously consider just a part time bedroom kink or certainly further soul searching on what you want out of female dominance.

If you have scored  35 - 48 then you have it in you to be a truly dominant force you really should introduce some form of compulsion and turn him into a non consensual slave under role play conditions. The benefits to you in normal routine out of role will then be manifold and great.

If you have scored  49 - 63 you are a female dominant superior in every way just waiting to control your slave, bite the bullet and live your dreams, true sadist in role play and invisibly in control outside of it. Role play will never be enough for you and eventually you will need a true masochistic slave, a normal relationship will never work for you without a very compatible male or one who can be shaped

5/7/2017 10:26:34 AM
9 Female Domination Rules

    Expose Him – public humiliation diminishes the ego effectively and entertainingly.
    Tease Him – erotic tease without satisfaction leaves his mind awash in a hormonal daze.
    Control Him – to be controlled is the submissive male’s fundamental need.
    Train Him – submissive men require strict training in obedience a humility.
    Humiliate Him – toy with his ego and self-respect. The more lowly he feels the greater his worship.
    Use Him – make him carry and labor. He exists to ease the life of his Mistress.
    Punish Him – submissive men need pain to maintain their obedient subordination.
    Deny Him – enjoy his increasing discomfiture and anguish the longer he lives without orgasms.
    Rule Him -is a summary of the techniques that keep an inferior male in his place.

5/2/2017 5:33:50 PM
Here is a "brief list" of ideas for your male slaves humiliation enjoy! :)
1) – Have your slave/sissy perform house chores in heels (that you have picked out and purchased for your sissy), panties, feminine clothing, etc. Take pictures and threaten to post them if s/he doesn’t do a good job.
2) – Have your slave hand wash all of yours (and his) panties, iron them, and put them away for inspection.
3) Go to any vitamin store, like GNC, and pick up a bottle of Natural Curves. It is found in the Women’s Health section. It contains all the natural ingredients to assist him in growing slightly larger man-boobs. Although different in everyone, my slave went up a cup size in three weeks. Sneak them into his multi-vitamins twice a day or if you are a stern Mistress, MAKE him take them. You will not only love the his little perky nips growing, the pill also increases his sex drive and keeps him extremely horney and attentive!
4) – Dress him/her in something obviously feminine (underwear too) and have him/her take a stroll around your neighborhood. Or better yet, drop him/her off in another neighborhood where s/he must walk around until you decide to pick him/her up.
5) – Have your sissy exercise outdoors in your workout clothing in the front yard, or around your neighborhood (of course in a sports bra, work-out shorts, socks, etc). The more padding in his bra, the better. If you have ever seen “Maidenform” Breast Enhancers? They look so real when glued on to my slaves body; nipples and all! J
6) – Have your sissy dress in obviously feminine clothing and work in the yard where it is possible that neighbors (even those that s/he can’t see) may be looking at him/her. Daisy-dukes and a tank-top are especially cute with a bra and panties. Set a goal to have all of the weeds pulled so you are sure your sissy in on his/hers hands and knees a lot for a true subservient look.
7) – Place your slave in a cage in a closet/basement/garage while you entertain your guest, have sex, talk on the phone to a boyfriend, etc.
8) – Order your slave to perform as a “househusband” while you do as you wish away from home (date, go shopping, go night clubbing with friends). Make him appear as you would expect a good “housewife” to behave (bubblebath, makeup, nail polish, shaved legs, sexy lingerie) and have him/her complete tasks around the house…just as he would expect you to do (male chauvinistic bastard). Then when you get home, have him/her waiting to service your needs without any regards to his needs. Don’t let him/her go to sleep until you are satisfied.
9) – Have your sissy set up an obviously humiliating screen name (sissyclit, tinypecker, cocksucking hubby, etc) and cruise online either looking for you a boyfriend for him/her or a boyfriend for you (hey, you might as well get something out of it). Have your slave copy and paste his chat comments onto a Word document for your review and set criteria for him/her to conversate about. Set goals on the number of men s/he talks to daily and punishments for not being enough of a whore online. Have him/her set up an additional email address where s/he can have emails sent for people interested in dominating your sissy or meeting his/her Mistress. This is particularly effective if you can post this addy on bathroom walls, at public restrooms, stalls at bookstore video booths, gay chatrooms…you get the idea.
10) - Have him/her rent or buy a particularly embarrassing adult movie at an adult video store and write you a detailed essay on it, including the storyline, quotes from the movie, detailed deions of the actors, and have him/her include 5 things s/he liked about the film.
11) - Have him/her dress in feminine or sissy clothing per your instructions and have him/her take pictures of “how cute she is” and post online in a chat group/forum with email info/phone number etc in the picture.
12) - Have him/her post pictures of his/her sissy clitty, man pussy, tenny-tiny pecker, chastised genitalia in a public forum and ask for comments to be sent to his Mistress at the email account specified above (you have got to make this email addy humiliating because it is going to be used A LOT.
13) - Have him/her order and read Playgirl magazine and post his/her favorite pictures on his/her bedroom walls or in a scrapbook. Leave the magazine out so any guest can see his/her name on the subion. Have your slave read feminine magazines (Vogue, Cosmo, Elle) and have him imitate clothing, makeup styles, and beauty tips on himself.
14) Purchase a webcam. Have the slave dressed in sissy attire, chastity and anything else humiliating, then model for you while you, your friends, your boyfriend, etc view the website from another location. This one has got to be the second most embarrassing idea on here ;)
15) - Put your slave in chastity and allow a friend to be the keyholder. I specially like giving the key to a boyfriend. That way the BF will know that you will not be cheating on him with your sissy husband! Make sure your sissy knows that if he wants to remove the chastity, he must call your boyfriend and ask to be unlocked. I like having my sissy tell my boyfriend why he wants to be unlocked, then repay the boyfriend with sexual favors for considering/allowing it. J
16) – Have the slave dress in sissy attire and wait on you and your guest, from acquiring drinks, making dinner, massaging feet, etc, etc, etc. If things get “saucy,” have your slave service you before and after your BF does. Make sure s/he cleans up for your guest as well, if you know what I mean...
17) – Begin dildo/cocksucking training by requiring the slave/sissy to perform fellatio at random times throughout the day. Have him/her name the fake cock something masculine and then name his sissy clit something extremely feminine (I prefer names like Priscilla, Brittany, Victoria, Jenny, Valerie, Tina as in tenny!) Buy a strap on and require any sex with his/her Mistress to be with the strap-on only! Ensure the sissy knows that his little dicky will never be allowed in a pussy ever again. The only sex he will have is in a dream or with a man at your direction! YOU OWN HIS DICK, ORGASMS, AND RIGHT TO SEX.
18) – Make the sissy wear obviously feminine clothes at the mall. Bras and panties are a must, but flip flops with painted toenails or a toe ring are a nice touch too. Have him/her try on feminine clothes and have him take pictures of his/her “fashion shoot.” You obviously don’t want to be there because then the clothes would look like they are for you; we can’t have that now can we???
19) - Have your sissy purchase an entire wardrobe…panties, bra, garter belt, thigh highs, corset (optional), nightie, slip, skirt, and blouse. I have even made my sissy by a makeup starter kit! How fun?!!
20) Use nipple suction (those snake bite kits work well here) to enlarge your sissy’s nipples. Apply them with a little bit of lube, then ever 15 minutes or so, squeeze any air out. Do this for an hour or so a day. By the end of two weeks, he will have huge nipples and the fun part is… he will HAVE to wear his bra! J
21) – That reminds me, have your sissy buy a nail kit, a French manicure. Make sure the little sissy doesn’t buy the press on kind, but rather the kind that are glued on with super glue!
22) - Have the slave/sissy set up a “sissy” myspace account and send comments to your current myspace account for all of your friends to see; the “gayer the better!” Of course discretion is a must, but if they can’t “really tell” who it is, it shouldn’t be too embarrassing. You should have the sissy add his regular profile to the sissy’s friends list. Then have the sissy leave comments on your myspace. This way, your friends will see an extremely gay comment/user, open the profile and see that your husband is first on the sissy’s friends list. Use this for your sissy to meet his new boyfriend as well! Make sure you have the password so he can’t hide anything from you…J

21) - Advertise your sissy hubby on Craigslist. Put a picture of him/her in revealing clothes and see if you get any bites. Make sure you state the obvious…tiny pecker, owned orgasms, but wanting to suck a “real man’s cock” and include “for the first time” or “curious”. It seems to attract more that way. It is even fun for you to supervise your sissy while s/he responds to these men. Make sure you have plenty of pics on hand; they will want to see it all!
22) – Have your slave order sexy lingerie on the internet that is custom-made with degrading or humiliating slogans/phrases. S/he can use these later in her chatrooms/emails for meeting guys as well on any future dates s/he may have!
23) – Drop your sissy off at the mall with no money, no credit cards, and (again) obviously feminine clothing. See if he can get a ride home or to a designated location by a stranger. You may tell him/her that if he can get you two phone numbers for guys who he feels would make you a good sex partner, you may come back and get him/her.
24) – Take your sissy to a nightclub in (again) feminine attire and have him watch while you meet guys, dance with and even kiss on the ones “with bigger cocks.” Oh that’s right, all of them have bigger cocks. Hehe. While dancing with them, make sure you point out your sissy husband and tell them about his inabilities to please you. Have your husband go wait in the car (or trunk) while you continue to have a good time. You don’t want your sissy to see everything. And should you “hit it off” have your sissy drive you home and prepare your guest and/or you for a good lay!
25) – Set your sissy up with a gay/bi-sexual man for his first experience. Make him call the man; make him set up the time and date, and make sure he performs. A double date with you and your new boyfriend makes this even more embarrassing for the sissy. (it’s gets even better if you brief the gay man on what you are trying to accomplish). Have the sissy beg to give his first blowjob and then ask for permission to swallow! They HATE this one. L Make sure you video this event or take pictures. Before you release the slave from his bonds, you have hidden the pics/camera so that he can’t find them. Blackmail is a MF. J
26) Drop your new cocksucking hubby off at a video booth (preferably in another city) that has gloryholes (most of them do). Give him about $3.00 for the movie. Then have him/her take pictures with his cell phone of him/her sucking someone’s cock. He must then text it to your phone before you agree to pick him up. He’s got to get home somehow! J
27) – Have your slave set up his/her paycheck through direct deposit into your account. Manage all of the slave’s expenses. Give the slave a personal allowance, based on need of course, each week. Then set up a reward system for the slave for particular task. The real nasty ones pay the most! J And what could be better, it’s his/her money you are giving to him/her so you aren’t out a dime. Make sure you tell him/her how you used his/her money to pay for your dates! This may be tough one, but once you have him in chastity for a period of time he will eventually give in. If not, tease him/her all the time with no chance of orgasm. I guarantee that s/he will break. They all do! J
28) Have your sissy throw away all of his male undies and force him to wear women's full cut nylon panties 100% for the rest of his life explaining to him that he will even be buried in them. Then make him tuck his shirt into full cut pink nylon panties and make him sit in a restaurant with his back in front of a table full of women with the waistband of his panties showing. Just wait for his doctor visits.;)
29) - Throw away all of his men's dress socks and make him buy dark colored women's trouser socks. Oh, and thigh highs are a must. I sometimes even require my sissy to wear panty hose under his shorts when we are going out in public. “Everyone knows he is wearing hose!” Hehe
30) - Make him/her nocturnally incontinent by putting him in adult diapers and tying him lightly to his bed for at least a two week period after making him drink two glasses of water before bedtime. He will soon learn to let go during his sleep and will become full dependent on night time diapers under his panties and gown when given fluids before bedtime.
31) - Having him/her get a good tan while wearing a bra and high wasted string bikini panties, for later exposure at the beach or while washing the car without a shirt. You can be sure he won’t cheat with these marks…
32) - Have him bathe daily in women’s soap, use women’s deodorant, women’s perfume, women’s shaving lotion, shampoo, feminine spray (I like FDS by Summer’s Eve) etc. Then take your sissy to an obviously male dominant store, night club or gay bar. This one is very difficult for him/her at the health club as well. To smell like a sissy around all of that testosterone is a sassy combination! J
33) – Take your slave to a bookstore on a busy day and leave him with a stack of gay magazines to flip through. Sit and watch from a distance while people look and snicker! J
34) - Require him/her to 'tuck' his penis in with the aid of a tight girdle for a period of time, perhaps every night for a week including bedtime. Makes sure he wears tight jeans so it appears he has no cock. You may also purchase a girdle that has built in padding in the hip and buttocks area to help with his “feminine look.”
35) – Have your sissy go to a video/novelty store and purchase a gay porno movie (I prefer the bondage series) and a medium size butt plug. Begin training your slave to accept cock into his “pussy”. One day, who knows, you may have him take the real thing and nobody likes a whiny baby! J
36) – Require your slave to put on an obviously femme mini-skirt, maybe some fishnets or pantyhose, then go run errands like putting gas in the car where she/he actually has to get out and pump gas. Or to the drive through where the girl, or guy, at the window can see he has a skirt on. Require that s/he shaves his legs for this one. Let’s hope they get the order right! J By the way, a bra with a little padding goes a long way. Try taking two knee high panty hose stockings, filling them with uncooked rice. They form great (with the help of a push up bra to look like real tits under his shirt.) I’m getting so wet thinking about it!
37) Tie your slave down, straddle his face and masturbate in front of him. Then, rub your juices all over his face and leave him there while it dries. You can even take him out to the mall or to eat with this on his face. Hopefully, you aren’t a heavy cummer! J
38) Use a dildo to orgasm, then have him lick/suck the dildo clean each time. This is the only “sex” he should be allowed!
39) Have your subby masturbate two or three times a day for a week or two. Then lock his cock up in a chastity device. He will be so used to producing cum, that the lack of being able to expel it will be torture!
40) Have your sissy hubby take your panties, bras, intimates, along with all of his/hers to a coin laundrymat and wash them. Then have him/her read girly magazines while he waits for them to dry. Once dry, have him/her fold all of them nice and neatly. Maybe some gurly clothes to wear while he/she is doing it would be a nice touch too!
41) Make him buy a slim butt plug and lube it well before he puts it in while wearing a tight panty girdle to keep it from coming all the way out. It will slide in and out for a good self-screwing as he walks and watch the expression on his face when he sits down!
42) Tie a thin fishing line around your slaves penis/chastity device/balls whatever, then run through his panties, out of his pants and tie it with little wiggle room to your purse, your belt loop, etc. Then, as you are walking around through the mall or club, he will have to stay right up against you regardless how fast you walk or where you go… imagine chatting with other guys (having him right there for the embarrassment) or when you are shopping for lingerie!
43) Make a chart with all of these ideas on them…then, allow you slave an orgasm once all of the tasks are performed. Use stickers/stars, smiley faces to indicate which tasks have been performed. Use your discretion on how many task can be performed each day/week/month and how many have to be completed for orgasm. It will force him to do some of the tasks he really doesn’t want to do just to cum. And in fact, having to do these of his own free will can be even that much more torturous!

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Below is a list I offer up for any who might be interested. This list was provided to us by MrStefen and was so good I just had to share. Take a Look - and have a good time!!
List of teases:
- Make him strip naked and stand with he legs apart while you sit in a chair in front of him with your clothes on. Make him masturbate in front of you till he is hard and then with his hands on top of his head, order him to swing his cock and balls around with vigor.
- Have him kneel before You and worship your feet. Make him clean between your toes and spend some time doing this.
- Have him address you as 'Mistress'
- Have him kiss Your ass...make him beg to kiss Your ass. Have him tell you that he wants to be your "ass slut" and tease him about this. Don't let him have you right away, waiting till he pleads with some seriousness in his voice.
- Tie his hands behind him and have him remove your panties with his teeth.
- Don't let him masturbate or touch his cock for 4 or 5 days. Make him go and get a small saucer from the kitchen and kneel in front of you and masturbate , his cum to be shot in the small saucer.
- Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while you read or watch TV. Be wearing high heels and tell him to keep his eyes lowered. Occasionally, nudge and tease his balls and penis with Your shoes.
- Use some thick yarn and tie a slip noose in the end of his hard penis...tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever you please.
- Show Your slave your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching.
- Tie your slave spread eagled to the bed and tease him for hours. Use ice cubes on his balls, warm massage oil to masturbate him slowly, etc....Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it, when he needs just a little more encouragement, don't let him cum.
Put on his favorite lingerie or domina costume on and tease him with it.
Scratch him with your finger nails, Tickle him, run a feather up and down the inside of his thighs, pinch his nipples, generally torment him, and keep him aroused, but no cumming till you are ready to allow it.
Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your nipple..let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else you might do.
Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste you.or your panties...get more promises
Blindfold him and make him lick you to several orgasms. Take a break,cum back and do it all again.
- Rub his face against your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with your panties or a gag so that he can't lick you.
- Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss your ass...stay just out of reach.
-tie his balls with some thick yarn and attach the end of that to an object with a little weight, like a hammer, or a weight from a weight lifting set, make him drag this across the floor behind him while you walk beside him and switch his bottom.
- Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.
- Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it.
Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He'll be Your little brown noser and love it.
- Make him lick the dildo clean.
- Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.
- Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.
- Make him wear a cock ring (a cat collar works well), get him hard, and then snap the end of a plastic fly swatter down gently across just the tip of his penis.
List of Humiliations:
Once he'll "do Anything to please You" here's some ideas that will keep Your slave attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for You.
- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid, have him serve you dinner or bring you a drink while you read or watch TV. When you have no need for him he can stand in the corner with his noise pressed against the wall.
- Make him do housework naked or dressed in women's clothes.
- Make him hand wash your panties and lingerie.
- Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash like a dog, he can even eat dinner from a dog dish on on his knees at your side when you are at the table..
- Ride him around as your pony boy...spurs? a riding crop?
- Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that,
- Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
- Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him.
- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
- If he is horny and You are not, make him strip and kneel silently in front of You and order him to stay erect.
- Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don't let him, punish him if he does.
- Make him earn his rewards; for example:
Allow him to kiss your ass after the dishes are done.
1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of yours.
5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes you cum 3 times.
Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to jack off.
- If You think he's earned an orgasm, make him cum on your feet or on your heels or in a dish or on your ass and then make him lick You clean.
- Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give him permission. When you give the command he must cum within 30 seconds or he will be punished or not allowed to cum at all that day.
- If he's really horny and bothering you, you may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 2 or 3 times in a day, or you can do this for him....there are a variety of things that can be used to create different sensations.....gloves, cremes, creme with coffee grounds on the hand....nylon sleeves, etc.....
- Make him lick you clean after sex.
- When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
- Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him.
Punish him if you don't think it's good enough.
List of Punishments:
If he's not performing to Your satisfaction, or you just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave.
- Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle...)
- Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
- Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
- Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
- Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
- In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders - good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable. Use a small plastic swizzle stick to probe his ass. Or buy rubber gloves and make a big production of putting them on when he is tied with his knees to his chest.....Give him a slow prolonged anal exam.
- Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly.
Do each ball separately. Take each ball in a separate hand and rest them on your open palm. tell him that these use to be his but they belong to you know. to use, or play with as you want. Jiggle them in your palms....cup each hand around them and squeeze very slowly and somewhat gently, but until you see him grimace...ask him who owns these things now.
Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. Use a needle to scrap along his shaft lightly, and poke his bottom a few times....
- Make him wear a male cock cage.
- Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
- Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
- Enema.
- Don't give him permission to cum. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
- Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples. (not on his balls, and doesn't wash off with water....)
- Drip candle wax on him.
- Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats,aerobics...) while naked.
Put on some opera length gloves and tell him he has earned a face spanking. Make him kneel and hold head high and slap him repeatedly, {note from Domina, PLEASE check out our faceslapping FAQ before you do this!} not too hard, but over and over till he gets a little dizzy. grab him by his ears and pull his head down between your legs and make him service you. before you cum, put him back in position and slap his face a few more times....repeat as often as you like. While you are positioning him for a slap, jiggle his balls with the tip of your high heel and tell him what a nasty little boy he is...
Make him order a blow up doll from the back of some sex mag, and have him bring it into the living room. Make him blow it up and set it on the coffee table. Don't say anything about it for an hour or so, then have him strip and fondle him till he is hard. Make him mount the doll and screw it while you watch, or while you paddle him....or tickle his ass cheeks with a long feather.....make him talk to her, give her a name and say sexy things to her while he is humping her.....have him do it till he cums and tease him about what a little stud he is.....and how you may let your girlfriend xxx watch this one time, or how the guys at work would love to see this.....
We would like to increase this list and make it available to all D/s couples who like us, were looking for ideas to increase their pleasure and fun. If you have any favorite teases, punishments, humiliations, etc., send them to us and we'll post the additions on a weekly basis.

5/2/2017 5:31:00 PM
Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List
This questionnaire should be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:
⦁ Yes, No or N/A – For each item to indicate if you have ever done the activity, not done the activity or if it does not apply to your gender.
⦁ 0 – 5, or No – Next indicate how you feel about the activity using the rating scale provided below. A ‘No’ means that will not do the activity under any circumstances (a hard limit)
0. Indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1. Means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2. Means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3. Means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4. Means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5. Means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
NOTE: Place an asterisk (*) next to those items you are only willing to do with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
NOTE: The list is by no means 100% inclusive, so add any additional information which might be important for your Dom to know.
WARNING: If you have any medical conditions that might limit your ability to play let your Dom know! Dom’s are not mind readers and if you don’t tell them about an existing condition, they won’t know. This places both of you in a dangerous situation, so be honest!
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Activity Experience
(Yes, No, or N/A) Willingness
(0 – 5 or No)
Abrasion -0
Age play -2
Anal sex -3
Anal plugs (small) -4
Anal plugs (large) -2
Anal plug (public, under clothes) -4
Animal roles -no 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 0
Asphyxiation -0
Auctioned for charity -4
Bathroom use control -5
Beastiality -no 0
Beating (soft) -2
Beating (hard) -0
Blindfolds -5
Being serviced (sexual) -2
Being bitten -2
Breast/chest bondage -3
Breathe control -2
Branding -0
Boot worship -6 :)
Bondage (light) -5
Bondage (heavy) -4
Bondage (multi-day) -1
Bondage (public, under clothing) -5
Breast whipping -4
Brown showers (scat) 0
Cages (locked inside of) -5
Caning -5
Catheterization -no 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) -5
Chastity belts -4
Chauffeuring -5
Choking -1
Clothespins -3
Cock worship -4
Collars (worn in private) -5
Collars (worn in public) -2
Competitions (with other Subs) -3
Corsets (wearing) -3
Cross dressing -4
Cuffs (leather) -5
Cuffs (metal) -5
Cutting -no 0
Dilation -0
Double penetration -na
Electricity -0
Enemas -3
Enforced chastity -4
Examinations (physical) -2
Exercise (forced/required) -4
Exhibitionism (friends) -4
Exhibitionism (strangers) -4
Eye contact restrictions -5
Face slapping -4
Fantasy abandonment -4
Fantasy rape -0
Fantasy gang-rape -0
Fisting (anal) -2
Fisting (vaginal) -na
Following orders -5
Foot worship -10 :)
Forced dressing -3
Forced homosexuality -3
Forced masturbation -5
Forced nudity (private) -5
Forced nudity (around others) 2
Forced servitude -5
Full head hoods -4
Gags (cloth) -3
Gags (rubber) -3
Gags (tape) -3
Gates of Hell (male) -no 0
Genital sex -2
Given away to another Dom (temp) -5
Given away to another Dom (perm) -1
Golden showers -3
Hairbrush spankings -4
Hair pulling -na
Hand jobs (giving) -4
Hand jobs (receiving) -3
Harems (serving w/other subs) -0
Harnessing (leather) -4
Harnessing (rope) -4
Having food chosen for you -5
Having clothing chosen for you -5
Head (giving fellatio) -5
Head (receiving fellatio) -2
High heel worship -12 :)
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) -5
Hot oils (on genitals) -3
Hot waxing -5
Housework (doing) -4
Human puppy dog -1
Humiliation (private) -5
Humiliation (public) -4
Hypnotism -1
Ice cubes -1
Infantilism -no
Initiation rites -no
Injections -no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage -0
Interrogations -0
Kidnapping -3
Kneeling -4
Leather clothing -5
Leather restraints -5
Lectures for misbehavior -5
Licking (non-sexual) -5
Manacles & Irons -4
Manicures (giving) -3
Massage (giving) -4
Massage (receiving) -1
Medical scenes -0
Modeling for erotic photos -0
Mouth bits -0
Mummification -3
Nipple clamps -4
Nipple weights -3
Oral/anal play (rimming) -0
Over-the-knee spanking -2
Orgasm denial -4
Orgasm control -5
Outdoor scenes -5
Outdoor sex -1
Phone sex (serving Dom) -1
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) -0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) -2
Piercing (permanent) -3
Prison scenes -0
Pony slave -1
Public exposure -no
Pussy/cock whipping -3
Pussy worship -5
Riding crops -4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.) -0
Rituals -1
Religious scenes -0
Restrictive rules on behavior -5
Rubber/latex clothing -5
Rope body harness -4
Saran wrapping -4
Scratching - getting -1
Scratching - giving -0
Sensory deprivation -4
Serving -5
Serving as art -0
Serving as ashtray -1
Serving as furniture -3
Serving as a maid -5
Serving as toilet -1
Serving as waitress/waiter -1
Serving orally (sexual) -4
Serving other doms (supervised) -4
Serving other doms (unsupervised) -4
Sexual deprivation (short term) -5
Sexual deprivation (long term) -1
Shaving (body hair) -5
Shaving (head hair) -5
Sleep deprivation -no
Sleepsacks -3
Slutty clothing (private) -5
Slutty clothing (public) -1
Spanking -5
Spandex clothing -4
Speech restrictions (when, what) -5
Speculums (Anal) -0
Speculums (vaginal) -na
Spreader bars -4
Standing in corner -5
Stocks -4
Straight jackets -4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) -2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) -5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) -0
Strapping (full body beating) -3
Suspension (upright) -0
Suspension (inverted) -0
Suspension (horizontal) -0
Supplying new partners for Dom -0
Swallowing semen -1
Swallowing urine -1
Swapping (with one other couple) -1
Swinging (multiple couples) -0
Tattooing -no
Teasing -0
Tickling -1
Triple penetration -na
Uniforms -2
Including others -2
Vaginal dildo -na
Verbal humiliation -6
Vibrator on genitals -2
Voyeurism (watching others) -4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) -4
Video (watching others) -4
Video (recordings of you) -4
Water torture -1
Wearing symbolic jewelry -0
Whipping -4
Wooden paddles -5
Wrestling -3

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