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MissyMichelle
Lesbian Transgender, 62, Askme, California 
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MissyMichelle

Hello Everyone!

Here is the scoop on me. (not my neckline ... my life!)

I am a dominant woman.  A dominant trans woman.  and though this profile describes an area of my personality that is not stereotypically dominant, if you get to know me, you will see it is true, I really AM very dominant.  Throughout MOST of life I live and AM very Dominant.  This does not mean that I want to hurt you or destroy those I control. Some dommes may advertise that but I am not that way.  Yes, I do want absolute control, but if someone offers me authority over them and I accept it my goal is to use the control I have toward good and positive ends, for both of us.

But there is one area (and only one) where I do enjoy taking and apparant sub role. Actually, the word sub is not correct here. I am not a true sub. I would say its more like a fantasy role of being a bottom. Yep! its true, even though I am VERY much a Dom, I get excited sexually when you express that you WANT to see me dressed the same way that I want to see you! I have a fetish for sheer nylon and chiffon lingerie and clothing. I like it on you, and I am turned on when you want to see it on me.

I know that some just can not grok that!  ,,giggle,,  Some would say that I am a switch, but that is not really accurate because throughout MOST of life I will never release full control to you, I will ALWAYS be dominant, and I will always control the path our lives take. That does not mean you never get your way ... and sometimes I might seek to reward you with activities that you enjoy, but this too is always at MY discretion. So I am always the one controlling, and loving.

But in the sexual area, there are a few things that can really get my blood going. Though I often like to have control in life, I can ALSO enjoy it when the tables are turned and someone else pursue me sexually. When you express to me that you want to see me dressed in some specific sexy outfit in some specific place.  Or when you express your desire that I dress and act more sexy more often.  Or when you just contantly express your desire for ME.

Some might think that this seems like I am switching, but it is not really because I orchestrate and I teach you just what to do and not to do and say. So really . . . I am still the one in control. I call my fetish for sheer clothing and lingerie and having someone else pushing me in that area ,,bedroom bottoming,,.  Confusing?!? I hope not. But if it is, I can explain it all to you if you get to know me and we begind talking on the phone, video, or in person (I do not care for typing much).

Basically, while in LIFE I desire to control and be responsible for someone else, in the sexual area I get turned on if YOU actually desire to see me as a slutty bimbo in sheer sexy clothing and lingerie.  You communicate this to me in many ways every day.  AND, you are not shy about even implementing various techniques of control, which we will discuss and I can teach you to MAKE me be that way!

So I am a Dominant that like to be pushed. There are some submissives that get what I have said so far and can push me a bit for MY sake.  It is a service that they do for me.  And it is true that I do get turned on when I am pushed and it is a service that you do for me when you do this but I do not want you to have me dress sexy JUST so that I get turned on, ... YOU must really like and even get tuirned on by the process of pushing me to be more and more sexy fem, slutty, and even bimbo like.  You even enjoy it if I begin to feel uncomfortable with it!!  

So you might start by asking me, and asking often!  Maybe you might even beg me.  You encourage me, you bargain and make deals and bets with me, and then when you have taken that as far as it can go you might even trick me, and then eventually you are not above even FORCING me to dress, talk, act and look completely slutty!  ALL the time!!  Or at least as often as you can.  Both in private and eventually throughout all life!  You don't do it specifically to humiliate me, but if I get a bit humilitated this does not stop you either.  And though it might sometimes turn me on your are not doing it for that reason either, you do it to turn yourself on! Does that make sense? If not, write to me and have me explain it to you until we get on the same page.  (It is actually a little difficult and embarrassing to talk about and so I kinda love being forced to explain it!)  LoL.

Would you be turned on seeing me in sheer lingerie? Would you love motivating me to dress is something sheer and more sexy than I ever have in public before? Write me and lets talk.

I always return mail. I am very friendly. I am always polite.

More Info (if you want it)

I am looking for friends (whether Domme, switch, sub, or slave) to discuss and share our thoughts and feelings. We can talk for a tiny bit by typing here, but I really prefer speaking to people on the phone, or on Discord. It takes so much effort to try and type out a whole relationship and you still miss SO much (like tone, inflection, etc.) when you can't hear the other person's voice. Maybe you won't ever be my slave or property.  Maybe you don't want to be!  That is okay too.  That is a rare possibility anyway.  Maybe we can become wonderful kinky friends!  And, if my friends would like to encourage me to become more feminine, more sexy, sluttier, bolder, and even more bimbo like ... thank you! I love to dress, and I go out dressed fem all the time, but usually need help and encouragement to look my best, or my sexiest.  I also have days where I don't do all that I can to live life at my sexiest and my best.  So a friend who wont let that happen and cam make me live every moment at my sexiest and best that is wonderful!  Perhaps, with your encouragement, I will become the best bimbo lingerie slut that I can be in private ... and then in public too!   ...smiles...


3/25/2024 9:17:38 PM: Please do not lie to me!  If you lie you may get away with it for a short while but you will doom the relationship to fail in the long run. If you and I get to the point where I accept you into my service you will give all contact information like your real name, address, and phone number and we will communicate by phone and sometimes on video and we will work toward getting on a plane for real life visits.  If you can not do this, or if you dont want to do this, then do not write me and tell me that you want to serve.  I am tired of people telling me that they want to sweep my floor but they don't feel comfortable telling me their name!  Get real.I will train you in how to think and how to serve.  Training your thinking is detailed and involves defining words so that you and I mean the same thing when we speak.  It does not start out sexual at all.  It will be like school.  You will take notes and be tested.  But before we start that process you will provide the same kind of identifying information you would need to provide to a school about who you are.  It is not the first thing I ask, but I will ask for it eventually so don't start out telling lies.I can accept MANY things about you from your past.  When I say that I accept them it means that I accept that you have these things in your past.  It does not mean that you will be able to continue those things.  If you have made mistakes you can tell me, and we will decide how you should proceed from this point.  If you can be submitted and committed, then you can succeed.  If you want to say how things should be or how they will progess then you will fail.Do you still want to serve?If you do want to serve be sure to show me that you have read this journal article by summarizing this article, and any other journal articles, and summarizing my profile in your own words in your first letter to me.  This will show me that you have read my full profile and journal and it gives you an opportunity to tell me the things you like best (or worst) about what you have read.  If you write me with just a one liner or even a short paragraph I will know that you have NOT read my entire journal and profile.  And that you would rather disrespect me by writing before even investigating what I have written.  I will return all letters from those who make this sincere effort.Miss Michelle

3/23/2023 8:12:05 PM: I am heading to Mexico for a while and probably wont be able to answer email till I get home.  Maybe around the March 25th or so.Miss Michelle Edit:  Im back!

4/11/2022 11:54:19 AM: Advice for messaging*It is disrespectful and insulting when someone sends an introductory email which does not mention anything specific about my profile or interact with it at all.  Ask yourself this question.  Could the majority of your email to me be copied and pasted to 100 other people and be just as valid?  If the answer is yes and you send this to me then you have just identified yourself as a time waster.  Do you want me to think of you as a time waster?  Is this really how you want to introduce yourself?*If your spelling and grammar are poor, you are not putting in enough effort.  This identifies you as LAZY.  Some try to excuse their laziness with various reasons but you can always have a friend read what you write or just reread what you type out loud a few times before you hit the send button.  I do realize that some bad punctuation is facilitated by the text editor here because this site strips out most punctuation except commas, question marks, periods, and exclaimation points. Hopefully this will be addressed someday, but till then you can still find creative ways to mimic other punctuation.*But the main form of showing disrespect through a lack of effort is just not typing very many words.  Incomplete sentences, only one sentence, or worse, one word or just a bit of text speak show a lack of effort, interest, and concern.  Many people do not want to communicate over a phone, they only want to type, but then they also are not willing to put in much effort at typing either.  So I quickly find an imbalance of effort as I see the words I type quickly outpacing the other person.  This makes the other person seem uninvolved and unappreciateive of my efforts.  They insist that I type and not TALK to them but then they do not put effort in to type either!Frequently, I find that I spend a great deal more energy and effort typing long messages to people who do not put any effort into what they send me.  Sometimes, when someone does not put enough effort into their messages, I will limit my response back to them.  If all you can offer me is a few words or letters then I will try to use FEWER words and letters than you did!  This will make my messages difficult to understand and if this frustrates you, GOOD.  Now you know how I feel!*On the other hand, if you are willing to put time, and effort to create a polite, cogent, salient, and compelling email which directly references my profile... perhaps by pointing to something specific that I have written and telling me what you think about it, then you can be sure that I will write back to you.

4/10/2018 5:33:48 PM: Of late I have been inundated with scammers.  They seem to be getting more prlike YIM, or Hangouts)-Again, I'm not looking for typing. Scammers usually won't talk by phone.  But they might offer to send texts to your phone.  This gives them your phone number and they can sell that to junk mail (and junk text) places. Once I get to know you a little (say a couple conversation on the phone) then I will give you permission to send me texts.  Do not do so before that. If they ever DO give you a phone number it won't be a landline or cell phone, it will be a VoIP phone (like a gMail phone). I will only allow you to have my phone number if you are also willing to share yours. Scammers claim to live in the US but then they tell you they actually live in another country Lying on your profile gets you an Immediate dismissal.  Don't do it. Scammers claim to have read your profile but you don't even see them appear on your 'Who's viewing me' list. I will read your profile, please do the same for me.  I understand if you are a Scammer, or if you are a LAZY perve who is just looking for a quick hook-up then you don't have time to read all the profiles.  But if you are one of these 2 then I don't really want to hear from you anyway! Of course, the MAIN thing that scammers attempt is: SCAMMERS ASK YOU TO SEND MONEY Don't ask me to send you money!! There are MANY scams here, many reasons, and some of them even seem reasonable.  But NO ONE should EVER send MONEY to anyone you don't know off this site! You can reimburse travel expenses AFTER the girl is living with you for a month or two.  Or go pick her up and bring her back.  No cost to her and you don't send her money. Remember: If there is a 'purchase price', it's illegal and as a buyer, you could go to jail too!  The people that have been fooled into sending scammers money are part of the reason there are so many scammers! I WILL NEVER Send money! If I decide to bring you into my life I will be caring for you (providing a roof, food, clothes, etc.) for the REST of your life. But if you ask to have someone send you money then YOU are part of the scamming problem!!! Some of these same behaviors are also practiced by people who are not scammers.  They are just LAZY!  Like the people who tell you they read your profile but have not.  Or Subs who wrongly think that a Dom should send them money so they can come be the perfect slave for them.  If you are one of those lazy people, you should know you are making yourself LOOK like a scammer.  So STOP it! SCAMMER TALK Some phrases quoted from actual Scammers: 'looking for a real who can relocate''if you know you won't be able of relocating don't contact me' If I ever 'relocate' a slave I would come to her, help pack her up, and bring her back with me.  No sending money. 'I currently live in the slave training facility here in the outskirts of cypress, Texas' Really?!?  I'll have to check out 'Slave Training Facilities' in the yellow pages! 'I am again seeking full-time Ownership and Purchase.' When the scammer here says, 'purchase' do they realize selling humans is illegal?  I will NOT be 'purchasing' a slave.  You MUST willingly offer yourself to me.  I will be paying for you for the rest of your life.  But I won't 'BUY' you.  That would put us all in jail!

8/21/2017 11:55:57 AM: I was recently asked for some clarification about my responses to various kinks/fetishes.  If anyone has any further questions please do not hesitate to ask.* Pain: I'm not really into pain.  Pain is pain, and pain hurts!  I'm not a true masochist and I hope you are not a true sadist.  But, I understand that pain may be a necessary and often unavoidable tool for molding and shaping a submissive and that a Dominant person might use to help encourage (or force) me to dress sexy for you.  The pain is not what drives me.  Being sexy, even slutty for you does, and pain, or the threat of it, might be a tool you use to get me looking, speaking, acting and dressing as you wish.* Bondage: Bondage is kinda like pain.  I'm not specifically into bondage, but in many of my fantasies (and a few times, in reality, I have been in bondage as a means of getting me to agree to wear some specific outfit to a specific place, or maybe to get me to dress up more often.  On a few occasions I can get a claustrophobic feeling when I have been in bondage.  If that were to happen I would want to KNOW that you would let me out of it.  (But I might have to accept that you would also make me agree to speak in a fem voice all day or wear nylons for the week in order to get out of it!)  :giggle:* Humiliation: is a great kink tool!  But I don't like humiliation as it is often used with crossdressers.  Things like, 'your dick is small,' or 'you aren't a real man, so I'll make you a woman' or 'what a wimp or fag you are for dressing that way' are NOT turn on's for me.  BUT when YOU are turned on by me looking, speaking, and acting feminine and you like it SO much that you want me to do it even if I find it humiliating then my feeling of humiliation is just wrapped up into my turning you on even more.  It actually makes me feel even sexier.* Embarrassment: Is kinda like humiliation above.  Some cross-dressers are really into being embarrassed.  I am not.  But I DO like when you WANT me to look slutty, even if it does embarrass me.* Teasing: I like it when I tease you or others and I like it when you tease me.  I like mixing all the mundane things we do WITH sexual things and bring teasing play into the mundane.  A simple trip to the grocery store can be fun if we include getting the necessary items along with comparing their melons with yours or mine!  And it's even better if one or both of us are dressed sexy!* Orgasm control:  This kink is usually exercised by LIMITING the orgasms of another.  But this is not the only way that a Dom(me) can control an orgasm.  Another way to control it is to find the subs current baseline and INSIST on more.  Consequences can be applied for not reaching a certain agreed goal.  This makes the sub's 'new normal' more oversexed and the sub becomes highly dependent on a highly sexual norm.  I'll try to add more in time.  Please ask if you have specific questions.

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